Bones wrote on 24.02.2020 at 11:58 am
Stupid question but who are you actually? Because the whole thing definitely took place long before January 2020? More like mid 2018?
So I'm actually reading along since the forum exists Was also registered once a long time ago, but deleted myself since I went into therapy. Unfortunately I did not get the curve
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Nik89 wrote on 24.02.2020 at 16:39
So I'm actually reading along since the forum exists Was also registered a long time ago, but deleted myself since I went into therapy. Unfortunately I didn't get my act together
The most unironically sad post in this thread. No prospect of a second turn?
Kanalmalocher wrote on 02/24/2020 at 4:58 pm
The most unironically sad post in this thread. No prospect of a second turn?
So that was my first therapy that went a total of 9 weeks. After that unfortunately only been 6 months of abstinence. There has to be a second curve since for everyone a life of gambling is no life. Except for the 3% who may really have it under control. Currently, however, I unfortunately do not have the strength to take the step again.
Herould wrote on 21.02.2020 at 12:28 pm
cbz490 you're right of course you are sometimes hot-headed young dynamic lads, I was also once a young hopper and when I think of myself I could also let off steam, but let's be honest, sooo extreme Marc is not at all, and he will be missed here believe me, is a smart boy the boy, it should each time hold to himself before you judge too quickly.
There is such a saying that is called:
"The wiser gives way"
The super-smart Marc should have just behave instead of throwing insults around. Disrespectful, inconsiderate and disruptive behavior has nothing at all to do with "smart"
And I certainly don't miss him!
Begbie wrote on 22.02.2020 at 09:58: it's about weighing, cost/benefit.
The benefit GJ gets from a user like Marc and his posts is imho much higher than the cost or trouble he causes by a slightly rougher choice of words. In addition, his choice of words was not even extremely offensive, rather direct and adapted to the level of some (not all!) Fellow discussants
It was a mistake to ban him. Also the warnings were already exaggerated. Sure, you should keep to a certain netiquette, but you're not here in a pink strawberry world, where you have to pampern the people so they do not start to cry.
Cost/benefit? Please what? What benefit? Just because he has experience - which I'm sure others have as well - was it a mistake to ban him? So would you be ok with more experienced users treating other/new users like crap just because they are more "experienced"?
Does it have to be extremely offensive before you ban a "more experienced" user?
I think not!
And especially if you write "experience" on his flag should be able to simply stand over certain things without immediately throwing insults around, even if they were not so extreme from your point of view.
Flipstar67 wrote on 26.02.2020 at 11:54 am
There is such a saying that goes:
"The wiser yields"
The overly smart Marc should have just behaved himself instead of throwing insults around. Disrespectful, inconsiderate and disruptive behavior has nothing at all to do with "smart"
And I certainly don't miss him!
If the smarter one always gives in, the stupid ones win at some point.
Flipstar67 wrote on 02/26/2020 at 12:25 PM
Cost/benefit? Please what? What benefit? Just because he has experience - which others certainly do - was it a mistake to ban him? So would you be ok with more experienced users treating other/new users like crap just because they are more "experienced"?
Does it have to be extremely offensive before you ban a "more experienced" user?
I think not!
And just when you write "experience" on his flag should be able to simply stand over certain things without immediately throwing insults, even if they were not so extreme from your point of view.
My goodness, the WWW is not a pink strawberry world where everyone has to love each other.
If one moves in forums, one should be able to have also ne direct word choice of the counterpart off.
And that's exactly what it was, direct language and no insult.
With benefit I do not mean his experience, but that he has actively filled the forum with useful posts. Ergo, the quality has also increased as a result. And that's definitely better for me than having to read through posts from people who are dumber than 100m of dirt road....
Begbie wrote on 26.02.2020 at 18:54
My goodness the WWW is not a pink strawberry world where everyone has to love each other.
If one moves in forums, one should be able to have also ne direct choice of words of the counterpart off.
And that's exactly what it was, direct language and no insult.
By usefulness I don't mean his experience, but that he actively filled the forum with useful posts. Ergo, the quality has also increased as a result. And that's definitely better for me than having to read through posts from people who are dumber than 100m of dirt road....
To call others "parasites" is simply to be seen as an insult!
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Nice that you also found an occupation here in the forum almost....for more it is not enough.
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So that was my first therapy that went a total of 9 weeks. After that unfortunately only been 6 months of abstinence. There has to be a second curve since for everyone a life of gambling is no life. Except for the 3% who may really have it under control. Currently, however, I unfortunately do not have the strength to take the step again.
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There is such a saying that is called:
"The wiser gives way"
The super-smart Marc should have just behave instead of throwing insults around. Disrespectful, inconsiderate and disruptive behavior has nothing at all to do with "smart"
And I certainly don't miss him!
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Cost/benefit? Please what? What benefit? Just because he has experience - which I'm sure others have as well - was it a mistake to ban him? So would you be ok with more experienced users treating other/new users like crap just because they are more "experienced"?
Does it have to be extremely offensive before you ban a "more experienced" user?
I think not!
And especially if you write "experience" on his flag should be able to simply stand over certain things without immediately throwing insults around, even if they were not so extreme from your point of view.
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If the smarter one always gives in, the stupid ones win at some point.
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What else is the reporting function here for? I also report only when it is appropriate.
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My goodness, the WWW is not a pink strawberry world where everyone has to love each other.
If one moves in forums, one should be able to have also ne direct word choice of the counterpart off.
And that's exactly what it was, direct language and no insult.
With benefit I do not mean his experience, but that he has actively filled the forum with useful posts. Ergo, the quality has also increased as a result. And that's definitely better for me than having to read through posts from people who are dumber than 100m of dirt road....
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To call others "parasites" is simply to be seen as an insult!
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