Dipson, please don't take it personally, I think most are far from amused, the like.
Many know your situation from personal experience.
Big problem: they don't know each other in vivo, can't gauge your trustworthiness. My first thought when I read this topic was, wait, Dipson had complained about fees for withdrawals at MrGreen the other day.
You didn't write about a new apartment, social services, Debt counseling, addiction counseling, etc, which you settled, but about MrGreen.
Then you just think, end of the month, money, gambled a few days, now all.
Many here have a lot of experience with addiction.
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SuitedTrips wrote on 02/07/2018 at 4:11 pm: I get that you guys are making fun of it now, but I just find it insanely sad.
I think you took the statements WRONG. Here, no one makes fun of anyone
I myself know better than anyone else how it is. Desperation makes a person do a lot of things. Nevertheless, it does not turn off the brain
If you're desperate you do things that you would have approached differently in the aftermath, yes, but the people first without reason Anmachen and then exactly these after money questions has nothing to do with desperation
You can still think. Especially in such a situation, every step should be thought through carefully beforehand
I just want him to think before he acts. Right now he is acting without sense and reason and that is very dangerous in such a situation.
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Hammerdammer wrote on 02/07/2018 at 16:38
SuitedTrips wrote on 02/07/2018 at 4:11 pm: I get that you guys are making fun of it now, but I just find it insanely sad.
I think you took the statements WRONG. Here, no one makes fun of anyone
I myself know better than anyone else how it is. Desperation makes a person do a lot of things. Nevertheless, it does not turn off the brain
If you are desperate, you do things that you would have approached differently in the aftermath, yes, but the people first without reason Anmachen and then exactly these after money questions has nothing to do with desperation
You can still think. Especially in such a situation, every step should be thought through carefully beforehand
I just want him to think before he acts. Right now he is acting without sense and reason and that is very dangerous in such a situation.
Oh, ok, I see. Yes, you are right. I still feel sorry for him somewhere
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SuitedTrips wrote on 07/02/2018 at 16:40
Oh ok, I see. Yeah you're right about that. I still feel sorry for him somewhere right now
All good
I'm sorry myself right now if I'm honest.
There will be something. Even if hard and possibly takes a lot of time. . As long as someone really wants to change something, this will also create
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I did not want to and will not make fun of his situation, it is far too bad! But he can not just approach people here like that for nothing and then expect help.
And yes, I also see this as a desperate act to ask for money here. Only I can understand that no one wants to borrow money..especially not a highly bad gambling addict without a fixed income.
He had already opened a topic where it was about looking for a place to stay. There were many things offered, so that he should go to the employment office and so on. What has become of it?
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well i mean if he has internet and an internet capable device ...
Then the first thing he should do is to get rid of the stuff etc.. So he can save
think many here had such situations in life where it did not go so
the point is simply the... That behind such posts is always a great despair.
One would have to make him clear that we live in a welfare state and he, if he moves his ass a bleibe...job.... and can lead a normal life
sergioslot wrote on 02/07/2018 at 17:39: well I mean if he has internet and an internet capable device ...
Then the first thing he should do is start getting rid of the stuff etc.... So he can save
think many here had such situations in life where it did not go so
the point is simply the... That behind such posts is always a great despair.
One would have to make him clear that we live in a welfare state and he, if he moves his ass a bleibe...job.... and a normal life can lead
Exactly, the state helps only you have to personally apply for everything and tell the truth even if it's bitter and above all always ask at the offices what is possible or what you are entitled to.
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Arbeitsamt sends you to the job center that sends you to Caritas that sends you to the labor office that is so scrubbed I have to laugh degree itself
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Dude quite honestly
if gypsies manage to apply for a 5 room apartment and 2800 euro child benefit for 8 children
sergioslot wrote on 02/07/2018 at 5:58 pm
Dude honestly
if gypsies manage to apply for 8 children ne 5 room apartment and 2800 euro child support
then you get it also... Where a will is...etc
Especially cool are always the gypsies in larger cities (eg FFM) which aggressively beg for money, the gypsy family but on the outskirts owns a whole house. The fight even for 1€ although they are wealthier than the average. Sick
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Many know your situation from personal experience.
Big problem: they don't know each other in vivo, can't gauge your trustworthiness. My first thought when I read this topic was, wait, Dipson had complained about fees for withdrawals at MrGreen the other day.
You didn't write about a new apartment, social services, Debt counseling, addiction counseling, etc, which you settled, but about MrGreen.
Then you just think, end of the month, money, gambled a few days, now all.
Many here have a lot of experience with addiction.
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I think you took the statements WRONG. Here, no one makes fun of anyone
I myself know better than anyone else how it is. Desperation makes a person do a lot of things. Nevertheless, it does not turn off the brain
If you're desperate you do things that you would have approached differently in the aftermath, yes, but the people first without reason Anmachen and then exactly these after money questions has nothing to do with desperation
You can still think. Especially in such a situation, every step should be thought through carefully beforehand
I just want him to think before he acts. Right now he is acting without sense and reason and that is very dangerous in such a situation.
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Oh, ok, I see. Yes, you are right. I still feel sorry for him somewhere
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All good
I'm sorry myself right now if I'm honest.
There will be something. Even if hard and possibly takes a lot of time. . As long as someone really wants to change something, this will also create
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And yes, I also see this as a desperate act to ask for money here. Only I can understand that no one wants to borrow money..especially not a highly bad gambling addict without a fixed income.
He had already opened a topic where it was about looking for a place to stay. There were many things offered, so that he should go to the employment office and so on. What has become of it?
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Then the first thing he should do is to get rid of the stuff etc.. So he can save
think many here had such situations in life where it did not go so
the point is simply the... That behind such posts is always a great despair.
One would have to make him clear that we live in a welfare state and he, if he moves his ass a bleibe...job.... and can lead a normal life
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Exactly, the state helps only you have to personally apply for everything and tell the truth even if it's bitter and above all always ask at the offices what is possible or what you are entitled to.
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Dude quite honestly
if gypsies manage to apply for a 5 room apartment and 2800 euro child benefit for 8 children
then you get it also... Where a will is...etc
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Especially cool are always the gypsies in larger cities (eg FFM) which aggressively beg for money, the gypsy family but on the outskirts owns a whole house. The fight even for 1€ although they are wealthier than the average. Sick
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