So since she has a cell phone and Whatsapp I just assume that she is a bit older and not a toddler anymore.
Therefore, the symptoms are completely normal, such a thing is called puberty and every girl and every boy goes through such a thing that he / she distances himself / herself from the parents.
In such a phase you only have eyes for your friends, for the opposite sex and you are also very much in an experimental phase where you just want to try everything.
I myself do not have children and therefore can not judge thoughts about wanting to spy on his child, but I had also had a friend at that age where her father wanted to control her constantly and wanted to "spy" on her, and that just went pretty wrong and because of the sick behavior she said goodbye to him, and they go separate ways to this day and he has lost her completely.
At a certain age, a person simply has to be able to go his own way unhindered, gain experience. This phase is very important to find oneself.
A girl at such an age needs a father and no one who sniffs after her.
I would advise you to be patient, give her some space and be there for her as a father when she needs it.
But with the spying you can destroy the whole relationship with her with one blow, so you better think about it again
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There is a program that allows you to monitor your daughter's entire cell phone from home and even control parts of it. You can even use it to listen to the microphone at any time (i.e. her private conversations, not just the phone calls) or, for example, take a look at her and her friends with the camera from home (of course, only if she holds the phone at the right angle). All messages (SMS/Whattsapp/Emails etc.) would then first go to you and only be forwarded to her at your request... It's pretty scary what technology makes possible these days. But to your question: Yes such a thing exists!
I don't want to advertise the product here and I also think it is more than questionable to use such methods, just like the other members who have answered here. But if you have really thought about it and weighed the possible consequences, you can write me a PN. Then I will tell you (with a queasy feeling in my stomach) what the program is called.
I can think of a second danger: of course, things can come to light that you as a father would rather not have known....
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the3rdscatter wrote on 01/05/2018 at 14:50: There is a program that allows you to monitor your daughter's entire cell phone from home and even operate it in parts. You can even use it to listen to the microphone at any time (i.e. her private conversations, not just the phone calls) or, for example, take a look at her and her friends with the camera from home (if she holds the phone at the right angle, of course). All messages (SMS/Whattsapp/Emails etc.) would then first go to you and only be forwarded to her at your request... It's pretty scary what technology makes possible these days. But to your question: Yes such a thing exists!
I don't want to advertise the product here and I also think it is more than questionable to use such methods, just like the other members who have answered here. But if you have really thought about it and weighed the possible consequences, you can write me a PN. Then I will tell you (with a queasy feeling in my stomach) what the program is called.
I can think of a second danger: of course, things can come to light that you as a father would rather not have known....
You talk about a queasy feeling and you would give him the program though? What kind of people are you? Is no one able to gain trust anymore? Control is very useful, especially when she finds out ....ridiculous
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1st May. 2018, at 03:57 pm CEST#7
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Domesum is of course absolutely right and the thread creator is in no way entitled to make his own decision on how to deal with parenting problems. Much more he should follow Domesum's tips.... which are actually what exactly?????? Likewise, it is not for an inhuman like me to give the thread creator a specific answer to his specific concern
Dear Hobby Nonconformist Domesum,
i assume that the thread creator is the only one who knows the necessary facts to take such measures (e.g. age and a concrete assumption what could go wrong; also the concrete behavior of his daughter can be decisive here). Furthermore, I assume that the thread creator is NOT an absolute inhuman (notice what?) and considers such a measure rather as a "last resort" to prevent greater disasters.
To your question what we (? I am only one) are actually for people: we are people who respect the decision of other people and try to support them in this (if we can)!
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the3rdscatter wrote on 05/01/2018 at 15:57: The tireless mustard tube is, of course, absolutely right and it is in no way up to the thread creator to make his own decision on how to deal with parenting issues. Nor is it for an inhuman like me to give the thread creator a specific answer to his specific concern
First of all, I thought this was a joke on your part and the messages from some users would have been enough to clarify this exorbitantly stupid idea to monitor his own child by means of tracking and monitoring apps but since I see through this response how serious it is to you with the matter, I would also like to express myself once.
Much more he should follow Domesum's tips.... which are actually what exactly??????
Can I tell you since you seem to have a hard time reading Mister pessimistic mustard tube. She said build trust which you should do not only in a parent child relationship but in any interaction with people.
I assume that the thread creator is the only one here who knows the necessary facts for taking such measures (e.g. age and a concrete assumption of what could be going wrong; the concrete behavior of his daughter can also be decisive here)
This has and can YOU not decide. Every opinion is subjective and you can in no way assess what the thread creator considers right or wrong. He has written above that he has the FEELING that she consorts with bad people and instead of talking to her about it, he comes up with the brilliant idea surveillance can read the problem. Even more awesome I find that there are even more ingenious people like you who support the whole thing.
In addition, the TE would find such a thing within a minute also very well.
I don't think so, otherwise he would have done EXACTLY THAT.
Therefore, in conclusion, Mister pessimistic mustard tube. I would try to find my common sense again (if it is not already too late) and start to question certain things and not to want to support them. Then even well-intentioned advice in such a disgusting and condescending way to talk down only testifies to your character.
You don't have any children yourself and you think you want to talk down any people. Every rationally thinking person knows that it is the worst possible idea to monitor someone to want to cause an improvement of the overall situation.
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1st May. 2018, at 05:36 pm CEST#9
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Ok guys hahaha
Thanks for the answers
I talk to her a lot and we have a great relationship
The problem is that in my past I myself was active in the underworld...
Let me put it this way...
I know 100% that she deals with dealers and pimps...
I promised her that I will leave her alone... Because she is afraid that everything will escalate if I catch her live somewhere or with someone
I let her do it ok.
Just want a little surveillance nothing more
she is 21....
Have a great relationship all good
Only I know where this leads if I do not keep an eye on them
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1st May. 2018, at 05:41 pm CEST#10
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In order not to "triggern" you with my factual view on the problem too completely, I see now times generously from it to dissect your märtyrerischen and the really important connections not working out defense thread of your Gesinnungspartnerin here completely
Only so much: We all know NOTHING (except you two of course, you want to have solved the "case" here once again completely without facts) about the background of the TE. Should it now, for example, a measure to prevent a crime by or (even worse) AN his daughter, then the Tip with the trust:
-First, much too late
-Secondly, it can only be used to let a lot of valuable time pass
Of course, trust is the main key in this topic, nobody claims otherwise here. But it starts already in childhood and not only when it becomes problematic. Furthermore, trust does not build up in a few days, but needs time! What if the TE doesn't believe to have this time anymore??? How likely do you think it is that the TE has not been trying to build up this trust for a long time?
That there may be absolutely justifiable reasons for such a measure, you just do not want to understand. That there is also a child age, in which the father has absolutely still the right to know at any time where and with whom its daughter so verkehrt, fades out you naturally also fine cleanly!
What is really reprehensible about it, is that the TE possibly only tries to ward off a danger in delay. You sit before your computer, know NOTHING about it, but tries with all force the prevention of the danger to prevent. And then come sayings like: what are you for people... respect!
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Since I am often on the forum
I would have times a very special question
Do the young people among you or the it Freaks maybe a clue
My daughter is behaving strangely I hardly get through to her and I have the feeling that she associates with very bad and dangerous people
How can I track her cell phone or whatapp? Without her knowing
This is the only way to maybe get her out of this world ...By catching her inflagrantie
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Hi Sergio!
How old is your daughter?
Does she have intercourse with drug users? What have you noticed, other than not getting through to her?
I think spying by tracking is exaggerated.
Greetings
Starwalker
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So since she has a cell phone and Whatsapp I just assume that she is a bit older and not a toddler anymore.
Therefore, the symptoms are completely normal, such a thing is called puberty and every girl and every boy goes through such a thing that he / she distances himself / herself from the parents.
In such a phase you only have eyes for your friends, for the opposite sex and you are also very much in an experimental phase where you just want to try everything.
I myself do not have children and therefore can not judge thoughts about wanting to spy on his child, but I had also had a friend at that age where her father wanted to control her constantly and wanted to "spy" on her, and that just went pretty wrong and because of the sick behavior she said goodbye to him, and they go separate ways to this day and he has lost her completely.
At a certain age, a person simply has to be able to go his own way unhindered, gain experience. This phase is very important to find oneself.
A girl at such an age needs a father and no one who sniffs after her.
I would advise you to be patient, give her some space and be there for her as a father when she needs it.
But with the spying you can destroy the whole relationship with her with one blow, so you better think about it again
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I don't want to advertise the product here and I also think it is more than questionable to use such methods, just like the other members who have answered here. But if you have really thought about it and weighed the possible consequences, you can write me a PN. Then I will tell you (with a queasy feeling in my stomach) what the program is called.
I can think of a second danger: of course, things can come to light that you as a father would rather not have known....
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You talk about a queasy feeling and you would give him the program though? What kind of people are you? Is no one able to gain trust anymore? Control is very useful, especially when she finds out ....ridiculous
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Dear Hobby Nonconformist Domesum,
i assume that the thread creator is the only one who knows the necessary facts to take such measures (e.g. age and a concrete assumption what could go wrong; also the concrete behavior of his daughter can be decisive here). Furthermore, I assume that the thread creator is NOT an absolute inhuman (notice what?) and considers such a measure rather as a "last resort" to prevent greater disasters.
To your question what we (? I am only one) are actually for people: we are people who respect the decision of other people and try to support them in this (if we can)!
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First of all, I thought this was a joke on your part and the messages from some users would have been enough to clarify this exorbitantly stupid idea to monitor his own child by means of tracking and monitoring apps but since I see through this response how serious it is to you with the matter, I would also like to express myself once.
Can I tell you since you seem to have a hard time reading Mister pessimistic mustard tube. She said build trust which you should do not only in a parent child relationship but in any interaction with people.
This has and can YOU not decide. Every opinion is subjective and you can in no way assess what the thread creator considers right or wrong. He has written above that he has the FEELING that she consorts with bad people and instead of talking to her about it, he comes up with the brilliant idea surveillance can read the problem. Even more awesome I find that there are even more ingenious people like you who support the whole thing.
I don't think so, otherwise he would have done EXACTLY THAT.
Therefore, in conclusion, Mister pessimistic mustard tube. I would try to find my common sense again (if it is not already too late) and start to question certain things and not to want to support them. Then even well-intentioned advice in such a disgusting and condescending way to talk down only testifies to your character.
You don't have any children yourself and you think you want to talk down any people. Every rationally thinking person knows that it is the worst possible idea to monitor someone to want to cause an improvement of the overall situation.
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Thanks for the answers
I talk to her a lot and we have a great relationship
The problem is that in my past I myself was active in the underworld...
Let me put it this way...
I know 100% that she deals with dealers and pimps...
I promised her that I will leave her alone... Because she is afraid that everything will escalate if I catch her live somewhere or with someone
I let her do it ok.
Just want a little surveillance nothing more
she is 21....
Have a great relationship all good
Only I know where this leads if I do not keep an eye on them
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Only so much: We all know NOTHING (except you two of course, you want to have solved the "case" here once again completely without facts) about the background of the TE. Should it now, for example, a measure to prevent a crime by or (even worse) AN his daughter, then the Tip with the trust:
-First, much too late
-Secondly, it can only be used to let a lot of valuable time pass
Of course, trust is the main key in this topic, nobody claims otherwise here. But it starts already in childhood and not only when it becomes problematic. Furthermore, trust does not build up in a few days, but needs time! What if the TE doesn't believe to have this time anymore??? How likely do you think it is that the TE has not been trying to build up this trust for a long time?
That there may be absolutely justifiable reasons for such a measure, you just do not want to understand. That there is also a child age, in which the father has absolutely still the right to know at any time where and with whom its daughter so verkehrt, fades out you naturally also fine cleanly!
What is really reprehensible about it, is that the TE possibly only tries to ward off a danger in delay. You sit before your computer, know NOTHING about it, but tries with all force the prevention of the danger to prevent. And then come sayings like: what are you for people... respect!
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