Off topic & small talk: Let's talk about... (Page 3)

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SevenEleven wrote on 01/28/2019 10:22 AM: ...
Let's talk about the use of the report button in forums (= snitching) using two examples: Paysafemaster and yours truly.

Paysafemaster was reported and deleted for making unfair PSC offers. In this forum, such a thing is simply dubbed "begging".

I wrote in a thread the other day (directed at user Kaffeelicht) that I thought he was in his early 20s and late pubescent based on his demeanor here on the forum à la (quote) "Come on, let's put our Schw**** on the table... Hihi, mine is longer." Julian took this as an example and told me that many (!) comments of mine were reported and that I should please watch my language in the future

In advance and VERY IMPORTANT: I do not want to discuss whether I was (un)rightly warned or Paysafemaster deleted. Also with Kaffeelicht itself I do not want to argue; his nick I have only mentioned for the sake of completeness

My basic opinion: also (like any forum owner) the GambleJoe crew can warn, delete, hype users at will - it's their forum. The owners have the power. They have certain ideas about their clientele and that is apparently to be covered as narrowly as possible. In general, I think: If you as a user do not like the respective forum policy, you should delete yourself. If you are a user who is always offended, you should be deleted by the forum crew. But everyone has to bear the consequences of his actions without complaint. If the forum dies out because the remaining 39 yes-men have nothing new to say, then that's the way it is. If I'm deleted as a user because I've opened my mouth too wide, then that's the way it is. Then no party (neither forum owner, nor user) needs to cry around. Those are the consequences of the respective action, which it is to be carried in each case like a man (hehe). Et basta!

So, what would I like to exchange now? I would, quite girl-like-curious *here-could-be-a-unicorn-emojie-stand*, soooo like to know who of you advocates denunciation in forums in the form of the report button?!

For what feels like 78 years I am/was (as a user and also as a moderator) on the road in the most diverse Internet forums - in politics, philosophy, sports, job, technical, crafts, pure girl, garden, pet and -zig general forums. In none of these forums I have/had been reported for my previous comments. Nor would a paysafemaster have been reported in my lifetime. But in this forum this happens and I wonder why?! (Frankly: Julian's feedback really surprised me too, because I've been reading along here for two years and actually it seemed pretty "free" to me here. But now after my registration I had to realize that none of the forums I know is as strictly managed as this one. But that in itself is not the point > see above)

So, maybe one of the report button clickers has the balls (for those who are bothered by the word "balls" *g* > maybe someone has the guts) and shares why he tattled on Paysafemaster or me? What was the deciding factor? For example, the word "tails"? Would you not have reported me if I had written "Come on, let's put our penises on the table... Hihi, mine is longer." I'm serious, by the way, so I'm really interested to know if the tails word was the deciding factor. And I have several questions in general: So...

1. When did the tattletale mentality start with you? As early as kindergarten? Example: "Kevin said "bitch" to me." Or not until elementary school? Example: "Teacher, Schackeline writes with a pen and not a fountain pen."


2. Would you also click the report button if it said User X has pressed the report button or would you prefer that snitching is secret? (Rhetorical question, wa? *g*)


3. Are you sometimes ashamed of your cowardly snitching mentality? Would you like to be cooler, more courageous?

Again, and seriously, I would really like to exchange with you, the voluntary forum police ( ). Maybe then it will become clear to me why, for example, I never (in any forum, no matter how hot and personally discussed there) ever reported any user. No matter how stupidly, fecal-language or below-the-belt some things were formulated - I would never have dreamed of telling on someone to the forum moderators. I would be ashamed of myself for such a cowardly, desperate, childish act. And I would feel unspeakably stupid.

So... maybe someone who has already clicked the report button (doesn't have to be because of Paysafemaster or me) will comment. If not... Julian, then I'd be interested in at least a little statistic on how many users have clicked the report button for this post here. *g*

Many greetings


PS. Too bad Paysafemaster, I was looking forward to your landbased casino experiment.

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upola wrote on 01/28/2019 1:11 pm: I don't think much of the report button at all.

There are users who insult quite subtly.
If the user is then but even times insulted, or you criticize him too strongly, then the report button is immediately pressed or you write to the admin.

I prefer to sit down with the user auseiander.
And if it becomes too stupid for me at some point, I simply ignore the user.

The world can sometimes be so simple.

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Undisputed. But off-topic in this case (I didn't choose two examples on a whim, by the way).

True, Kaffeelicht, but: why do you not stick to your own statements, but complain prayerfully at every opportunity that presents itself and does not present itself?

Oh, what I wrote is an insult to you? No shit, I thought it was about fecal language (=tails). Never in my life would I have thought that I insulted you . But with what? With the fact that I wrote that I thought you were in your early 20s and not, as you said, "older than most here"? Seriously, THAT is an insult to you? (*laughs* Come on, tell me you were kidding. Even you couldn't have been offended by that...)

So what? Do you know how far up my ass it would go if someone wrote here (warning, the squeamish pussies among you, better cover your eyes), "SevenEleven, you're a mentally ill, stinky, fat, stupid *worst swear word-ever* and besides, your parents are siblings." So what? So what? Let him/her write something like that - if it makes schee. I'm merely amused by such things. And that even colossally. But never (!) would I report such nonsense to a moderator.

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Matthias wrote on 01/28/2019 at 1:03 pm

The suggestion brought by Kaffeelicht:
"There is no need for a report button..." "This can also be done via message to the admins"
At this point I have to disagree with simple math.

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Bone wrote on 01/28/2019 1:06 PM

I honestly don't give a f**k if some weirdo reports me here and then I get shit on from the forum management here.

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Coffee Light wrote on 01/28/2019 1:30 PM
That's just a problem.
People should already follow the rules.
Maybe the admins could again set clear rules that apply to all, so that users know what is allowed and what is not.
Because some think they are allowed to do everything and don't have to stick to anything, others follow this example

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Horsepower44 wrote on 01/28/2019 at 1:21 pm
I couldn't have put it better myself. Getting more and more sympathetic 🙂

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