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Gambling addicts also deserve second chances
13th Jul. 2018, at 12:42 pm CEST#1
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now that I have a longer voluntary inpatient therapy behind me and actually intend to change my life and start over again, I realize that the world around me somehow does not want to play along. That is, I still have my creditors, the mail continues to pile up and this whole situation makes you psychologically so ready that I hardly manage to do any work at all. Simply because there are too many building sites at once. Debts with banks, Insurance, rent debts to name only the larger.
Because of my bad credit rating, I can't get a bigger loan to pay off all my creditors in one go and concentrate on just one installment. It is made so extremely difficult to get out of this misery again. Once down, always down and how to get out of it ?
There is a lack of money everywhere, a lack of caregivers and simply a lack of any light at the end of the tunnel.
I am also in poor health, I am overweight, my teeth are a disaster, they would have to be completely replaced. But who pays for that?
Even if I would have a job tomorrow, I would have to insure my car again, and from what should I fill up my tank ? To the office ? Eternal paperwork and harassment ? Do you know the problem ? Solution ? maybe emigrate ?
after I now have a longer voluntary inpatient therapy behind me and actually intend to change my life and start over again, I realize that the world around you somehow does not want to play along. That is, I still have my creditors, the mail continues to pile up and this whole situation makes you psychologically so ready that I hardly manage to do any work at all. Simply because there are too many building sites at once. Debts with banks, Insurance, rent debts to name only the larger.
Because of my bad credit rating, I can't get a bigger loan to pay off all my creditors in one go and concentrate on just one installment. It is made so extremely difficult to get out of this misery again. Once down, always down and how to get out of it ?
There is a lack of money everywhere, a lack of caregivers and simply a lack of any light at the end of the tunnel.
I am also in poor health, I am overweight, my teeth are a disaster, they would have to be completely replaced. But who pays for that?
Even if I would have a job tomorrow, I would have to insure my car again, and from what should I fill up my tank ? To the office ? Eternal paperwork and harassment ? Do you know the problem ? Solution ? maybe emigrate ?
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Gambling addicts also deserve second chances
13th Jul. 2018, at 01:51 pm CEST#4
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Hi,
There are contact points for such things. Debt counseling, Caritas etc. Contact them as soon as possible.
There is always a way out of the situation. You just have to take the first step.
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13th Jul. 2018, at 02:27 pm CEST#5
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You've been through inpatient therapy and you're coming out of it so desperate?
What did you do in therapy? Didn't you address the problems exactly?
Of course there are solutions.
But you have made a different choice. You are living exactly the life you chose.
Who is stopping you from exercising, eating healthier?
From going to Debt counseling and filing for personal bankruptcy?
If instead you sit on the couch and do nothing, why complain?
Do it and your situation will get better or don't do it and it will stay that way.
No one can help you but yourself.
You have to go to a Debt counseling center, they will help you.
You can find contact points on the Internet.
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13th Jul. 2018, at 04:17 pm CEST#9
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I'm sorry for you... wish you a way out of your misery. You had opened a thread in March, if I'm not mistaken. Have reported that you are better again, you would have an apartment and a job. Four months later, is not a long time ... what went wrong?
i am amazed, you posted your own problem here today, get responses and then you write posts like this?
since you have not participated in the last 4 months anyway, it can not matter to you for now?
(apart from the fact that you will find a lot of attention and help in this forum for such problems, which you will not find in any other forum of this kind).
I have to agree with Wolfram. The mood here is no longer as good as that was perhaps a few weeks ago.
As if a kind of fear cloud would hang here over the forum bloß nix wrong to say. Last modified by Dipson on 07/13/2018, at 18:08
I try with my little knowledge about such circumstances as yours is still to help even if I can not push you now a few thousand over.
apparently you have enough time to search the forum and analyze the mood instead of seriously first to take care of your own situation and its improvement which already lasts much longer than 4 months.
why you do not answer questions in this thread, communicate with the people who want to help you about details if you should not know?
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now that I have a longer voluntary inpatient therapy behind me and actually intend to change my life and start over again, I realize that the world around me somehow does not want to play along. That is, I still have my creditors, the mail continues to pile up and this whole situation makes you psychologically so ready that I hardly manage to do any work at all. Simply because there are too many building sites at once. Debts with banks, Insurance, rent debts to name only the larger.
Because of my bad credit rating, I can't get a bigger loan to pay off all my creditors in one go and concentrate on just one installment. It is made so extremely difficult to get out of this misery again. Once down, always down and how to get out of it ?
There is a lack of money everywhere, a lack of caregivers and simply a lack of any light at the end of the tunnel.
I am also in poor health, I am overweight, my teeth are a disaster, they would have to be completely replaced. But who pays for that?
Even if I would have a job tomorrow, I would have to insure my car again, and from what should I fill up my tank ? To the office ? Eternal paperwork and harassment ? Do you know the problem ? Solution ? maybe emigrate ?
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A solution I also do not have, but you should first try to find a job...that would be a start.
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There are contact points for such things. Debt counseling, Caritas etc. Contact them as soon as possible.
There is always a way out of the situation. You just have to take the first step.
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What did you do in therapy? Didn't you address the problems exactly?
Of course there are solutions.
But you have made a different choice. You are living exactly the life you chose.
Who is stopping you from exercising, eating healthier?
From going to Debt counseling and filing for personal bankruptcy?
If instead you sit on the couch and do nothing, why complain?
Do it and your situation will get better or don't do it and it will stay that way.
No one can help you but yourself.
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But it is the only way out of such a situation.
You just have to want it.
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You can find contact points on the Internet.
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since you have not participated in the last 4 months anyway, it can not matter to you for now?
(apart from the fact that you will find a lot of attention and help in this forum for such problems, which you will not find in any other forum of this kind).
https://www.gamblejoe.com/forum/online-casinos/allgemeines/beitrage-loschen-27918/#p27920
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I try with my little knowledge about such circumstances as yours is still to help even if I can not push you now a few thousand over.
apparently you have enough time to search the forum and analyze the mood instead of seriously first to take care of your own situation and its improvement which already lasts much longer than 4 months.
why you do not answer questions in this thread, communicate with the people who want to help you about details if you should not know?
but you already have time for the above post
so you can not be so bad.
that's why I deleted my post above.
sorry, I feel f**ked by you and am out
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