Langhans wrote on 02.11.2023 at 16:05: I don't really know why a moderator should meet with me and vice versa: Normally you have nothing more to do with each other than that you are in the same forum. One writes, the other moderates.
That one sees collectively however blind dates (all the same whether m/w or whoever with whom for which reason meets) as something negative, because thereby unpleasant situations can develop, is for my taste also somewhat adventurous and exaggerated. This would mean that every contact exchange would have lost its raison d'être, because at some point you see each other for the first time, if that's what you want.
Matthias and Julian have almost celebrity status. You can possibly get an autograph if you ask them nicely...
so not with me...And I don't even mean that in a derogatory way, but I wouldn't know for what reason
Yeah, you definitely wouldn't miss anything with us so there are definitely nicer things to see in Malta!
Are unfortunately also no mood cannons like Begbie
Langhans wrote on 02.11.2023 at 16:05: I don't really know why a moderator should meet with me and vice versa: Normally you have nothing more to do with each other than that you are in the same forum. One writes, the other moderates.
That one sees collectively however blind dates (all the same whether m/w or whoever with whom for which reason meets) as something negative, because thereby unpleasant situations can develop, is for my taste also somewhat adventurous and exaggerated. This would mean that every contact exchange would have lost its raison d'être, because at some point you just see each other for the first time, if you want to.
How to see blind dates, is still left to everyone, even if who writes negatively about it. Just depends - as with everything - on the personal experience and if you have already experienced the craziest things, you quickly come to a negative conclusion. Without exaggerating it. I do not think anything of contact exchanges, by the way.
But also wanted to point with my comment rather subtly to the possibility that Gj might not be so eager for a meeting with complete strangers as the one or the other in his joyful imagination so imagines. And I can absolutely understand that.
How you see blind dates, is still up to everyone, even if who writes negatively about it. Just depends - as with everything - on the personal experience and if you have already experienced the craziest things, you quickly come to a negative conclusion. Without exaggerating it. I do not think anything of contact exchanges, by the way.
But also wanted to point with my comment rather subtly to the possibility that Gj might not be so eager for a meeting with complete strangers as the one or the other in his joyful imagination so imagines. And I can absolutely understand that.
I agree twice: the experiences can of course also be negative, as described by you, or end rather unpleasantly. I simply estimate that 80% of the dates are quite tame and eventually come to nothing, 10% lead to a love affair and more, 10% end in memorable-negative situations. Probably based on this subjective assumption to blind dates that you can do that once, but a must is certainly not. In principle, however, there is nothing against it for me. Parship has certainly more reliable sources at hand The Nähkästchenhans can bring his modest 2 examples: Both not purposeful, both nice days (in one case even with a second date), but the Flirthans capitulated due to lack of interest and the Betthans hoisted the white flag in time But you all certainly did not want to know
And concerning the GJ-meetings in Malta, I can of course also understand that, especially since I haven't noticed anything of this implied cult of personality around the admins
A meet and greet with Matthias, absolute madness. Some here would sell their grandmother for that!
I would absolutely like to have an autograph from Begbie, better still a selfie or better not, otherwise the fantasy image of Begbie will collapse
Nah, fun my friend spass!
Nee, times seriously, we are nevertheless all adult, and if one finds someone unsympathetic, yes then one simply goes!
Also, you do not have the loneliest corners there on Malta together abgrasen, but just meet in busy places.
Of course, I can also fully understand if the staff has absolutely no desire to meet after work still the one or other user privately.
I really want to have an autograph of Begbie, better a selfie or better not, otherwise the fantasy image of Begbie will collapse
Nah, fun my friend spass!
Nee, times seriously, we are nevertheless all adult, and if one finds someone unsympathetic, yes then one simply goes!
Also, you do not have the loneliest corners there on Malta together abgrasen, but just meet in busy places.
Of course, I can also fully understand if the staff has absolutely no desire to meet the one or other user privately after work.
If there ne handful of men meets, it should not come as a rule also to deep-rooted disgruntlements, as long as there are sufficient drinks on the table and which are at best also still ice-cold If there no Vollassi appears, then the evening also does not end with nem fiasco and "Ey, no more Bock on you, I go away" The question understandable for me is evenly whether one sacrifices for it then his closing time, because coincidentally strangers are in the proximity. If I would write with someone from the forum but anyway regularly privately, I would certainly agree. But you can not compare everything with a date, where the premise is of course different and the expectations of a successful evening are somewhat higher. There count then but other parameters than just the chat at nem always well-filled glass.
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Matthias and Julian have almost celebrity status. You can possibly get an autograph if you ask them nicely...
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not for me...And I don't mean that in a derogatory way, but I don't know why
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Yeah, you definitely wouldn't miss anything with us so there are definitely nicer things to see in Malta!
Are unfortunately also no mood cannons like Begbie
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How to see blind dates, is still left to everyone, even if who writes negatively about it. Just depends - as with everything - on the personal experience and if you have already experienced the craziest things, you quickly come to a negative conclusion. Without exaggerating it. I do not think anything of contact exchanges, by the way.
But also wanted to point with my comment rather subtly to the possibility that Gj might not be so eager for a meeting with complete strangers as the one or the other in his joyful imagination so imagines. And I can absolutely understand that.
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I agree twice: the experiences can of course also be negative, as described by you, or end rather unpleasantly. I simply estimate that 80% of the dates are quite tame and eventually come to nothing, 10% lead to a love affair and more, 10% end in memorable-negative situations. Probably based on this subjective assumption to blind dates that you can do that once, but a must is certainly not. In principle, however, there is nothing against it for me. Parship has certainly more reliable sources at hand The Nähkästchenhans can bring his modest 2 examples: Both not purposeful, both nice days (in one case even with a second date), but the Flirthans capitulated due to lack of interest and the Betthans hoisted the white flag in time But you all certainly did not want to know
And concerning the GJ-meetings in Malta, I can of course also understand that, especially since I haven't noticed anything of this implied cult of personality around the admins
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I would absolutely like to have an autograph from Begbie, better still a selfie or better not, otherwise the fantasy image of Begbie will collapse
Nah, fun my friend spass!
Nee, times seriously, we are nevertheless all adult, and if one finds someone unsympathetic, yes then one simply goes!
Also, you do not have the loneliest corners there on Malta together abgrasen, but just meet in busy places.
Of course, I can also fully understand if the staff has absolutely no desire to meet after work still the one or other user privately.
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The other day there was a CD on eBay from Vanessa Mai with autograph, which I unfortunately did not buy.
Do you actually have personal autographs from stars?
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If there ne handful of men meets, it should not come as a rule also to deep-rooted disgruntlements, as long as there are sufficient drinks on the table and which are at best also still ice-cold If there no Vollassi appears, then the evening also does not end with nem fiasco and "Ey, no more Bock on you, I go away" The question understandable for me is evenly whether one sacrifices for it then his closing time, because coincidentally strangers are in the proximity. If I would write with someone from the forum but anyway regularly privately, I would certainly agree. But you can not compare everything with a date, where the premise is of course different and the expectations of a successful evening are somewhat higher. There count then but other parameters than just the chat at nem always well-filled glass.
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