Donnie wrote on 15.01.2024 at 00:40: If you don't want to be bullied, you either have to laugh at yourself or beat yourself up (if you laugh at yourself, nobody can laugh at you anymore). The second option is to punch the person in the face until they get it. This can be anything. A fist, an object, a saying to destroy him, a threat, a promise that if he's alone it won't end well for him, and so on. Simply show that you won't put up with anything
There was once someone who used to be a martial artist and was at one of my sister's parties. He was talking such stupid stuff. I asked him if he'd ever been punched in the mouth for his chatter. He looked at me like a car. He could have finished me off if he wanted to. And yet he immediately had respect and that you have to have the courage to say something like that. He lives around here and still says hello to me or exchanges a few words. You can't show weakness even when you're weak. It's okay to be weak, because that's not a weakness but a strength. This must be made clear to the bullying scum. Think about how you can strike back skillfully and you are more likely to be respected
at school, they used to tease me too, I was really just on my own. Now I'm so old and still scared. It's funny that you can never get rid of your insecurity, it's probably also down to your personality. Everyone is different. Some people are very brave, they don't care about anything and others are always shy.
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Olli_Eule wrote on 15.01.2024 at 18:16:
in school they always teased me too, actually I was just on my own. Now I'm so old and still scared. It's funny that you can never get rid of your insecurity, it's probably also due to your personality.
Oh shit, I feel really sorry when I read that. Because I used to love being a bully. Typically, I always picked on the outsider in class to boost my own ego. Or to get a laugh from other classmates.
I also thought it was very courageous of one of our group, who at some point sought contact with the bullying victim and always built him up a bit by saying "Oh, you don't need to think anything about the bullying idiots, just fire back".
But I also had to put up with it myself for a short time at a new school in the sixth form until I made friends there. I was going through a really depressive phase anyway, so as a new student you quickly find yourself in the role of victim. But when I think about having to put up with something like that for years, phew. It was really great asi....
Oh shit, I'm really sorry when I read that. Because I used to love being a bully. Typically always on the outsider in class to boost my own ego. Or to get a laugh from other classmates.
I also thought it was very courageous of one of our group, who at some point sought contact with the bullying victim and always built him up a bit by saying "Oh, you don't need to think anything about the bullying idiots, just fire back".
But I also had to put up with it myself for a short time at a new school in the sixth form until I made friends there. I was going through a really depressive phase anyway, so as a new student you quickly find yourself in the role of victim. But when I think about having to put up with something like that for years, phew. It's really great asi....
it started for me when I was 13, when I started at a new school and there was no one in my class that I knew, so I was left behind and of course I didn't know anyone. The other pupils all knew each other from elementary school, only I was new because I was left behind. It's really hard to make friends when you're the only one. Then I was a follower, and a lot of what I did was wrong in their eyes, because they all stuck together, they had known each other for so long.
well, what the heck, we shouldn't expand the topic here, but I thought it was good that we brought it up. Something like that is important for our society. But that should be enough
that started with me at the age of 13, when I came to the new school and there was no one in my class that I knew, then I also stayed seated and of course I didn't know anyone. The other pupils all knew each other from elementary school, only I was new because I had been left behind. It's really hard to make friends when you're the only one. Then I was a follower, and a lot of what I did was wrong in their eyes, because they all stuck together, they had known each other for so long.
well, what the heck, we shouldn't expand the topic here, but I thought it was good that we brought it up. Something like that is important for our society. But that should be enough
then you know why you took refuge in the colorful casinos have you got something have you got nothing have you got nothing have you got nothing whoever has has a good word
then you know why you fled to the colorful casinos have you got something have you got nothing have you got nothing have you got nothing whoever has has a good say
I only take refuge in sports betting since Roulette became illegal.
Stromberg wrote on January 16th, 2024 at 10:02 am:
So when I need distraction, playing Playsi works quite well for me too.
Sure, I usually have a bet running on the side, but the intensity drops and the focus is on the game.
OK great what games do you play?
I have a Nintendo wii, but I can't keep myself occupied with it for that long. I don't enjoy it either. I can play Mario Sports Mix with my mother now and again.
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Yes, that's right, but I had left a little credit for tennis, I won odds of 2.6, doubled my credit and put the rest into tennis
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understand...kind of a flexible strategy Then good luck with tennis ...I'll spare my nerves a bit this Monday
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at school, they used to tease me too, I was really just on my own. Now I'm so old and still scared. It's funny that you can never get rid of your insecurity, it's probably also down to your personality. Everyone is different. Some people are very brave, they don't care about anything and others are always shy.
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Oh shit, I feel really sorry when I read that. Because I used to love being a bully. Typically, I always picked on the outsider in class to boost my own ego. Or to get a laugh from other classmates.
I also thought it was very courageous of one of our group, who at some point sought contact with the bullying victim and always built him up a bit by saying "Oh, you don't need to think anything about the bullying idiots, just fire back".
But I also had to put up with it myself for a short time at a new school in the sixth form until I made friends there. I was going through a really depressive phase anyway, so as a new student you quickly find yourself in the role of victim. But when I think about having to put up with something like that for years, phew. It was really great asi....
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it started for me when I was 13, when I started at a new school and there was no one in my class that I knew, so I was left behind and of course I didn't know anyone. The other pupils all knew each other from elementary school, only I was new because I was left behind. It's really hard to make friends when you're the only one. Then I was a follower, and a lot of what I did was wrong in their eyes, because they all stuck together, they had known each other for so long.
well, what the heck, we shouldn't expand the topic here, but I thought it was good that we brought it up. Something like that is important for our society. But that should be enough
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then you know why you took refuge in the colorful casinos have you got something have you got nothing have you got nothing have you got nothing whoever has has a good word
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I only take refuge in sports betting since Roulette became illegal.
But betting is the only distraction.
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So when I need a distraction, playing Playsi works quite well for me.
Of course, I usually have a bet running on the side, but the intensity drops and the focus is on the game.
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OK great what games do you play?
I have a Nintendo wii, but I can't keep myself occupied with it for that long. I don't enjoy it either. I can play Mario Sports Mix with my mother now and again.
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