Ankor wrote on 11/25/2018 at 5:19 pm: You ask people who have problems with gaming for advice? I'll answer once anyway:
So there is no advice that just works, because in the end only you control yourself and no one else. Whether you Deposit or not has no consequences in that sense. People who have been gambling for years therefore need at least some support (friend, family member, counseling - doesn't have to be an explicit counseling center - there are enough places where you can just talk). As soon as one can no longer keep to one's own words, one will not always keep to them in the future. At most, you can set mitigating limits and exclude yourself from time to time.
As stupid as it sounds, I for one can't talk to anyone about it. It's not possible... I just keep quiet about it - just about manage it, but losing and not being able to stop still hurts! I have locked myself out of various casinos and now try to cope with a deposit limit of 100 euros, because this amount should not hurt if I lose it...
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If I repeat myself 100 times
Addiction has a reason. Addiction is only the syndrome like sneezing with a cold. But the virus, the cause should be fought.
I myself am a life example. First drugs, alcohol, and now gambling. Even IF he should be addicted, and the potential IS there, stop, it will shift.
Sniffles gone, but cough is there.... Nasal spray has only helped to a limited extent
Addictions always arise from similar patterns
- Boredom in life
- Traumatic experiences
- Inferiority complexes
- Anxiety disorders and the like
- Social problems
I could continue the list forever. The one who plays the machine once every couple of months, without going crazy, is the one with a balanced and exciting life, who already has enough things to look forward to. The oxytocin is already so fully charged, there is no need for an additional vending machine.
People who come out of addiction do this ONLY WHEN they have totally changed their lives. Then it is not the often believed "distraction" but the missing "something" in life. That replaces the search, no matter which one. And if it was an unhappy marriage, job, debts, or or or
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Danny94 wrote on 12/31/2018 at 3:07 pm: If I repeat myself 100 times
Addiction has a reason. Addiction is just the syndrome like sneezing is with the sniffles. But the virus, the cause should be fought.
I myself am a life example. First drugs, alcohol, and now gambling. Even IF he should be addicted, and the potential IS there, stop, it will shift.
Sniffles gone, but cough is there.... Nasal spray has only helped to a limited extent
Addictions always arise from similar patterns
- Boredom in life
- Traumatic experiences
- Inferiority complexes
- Anxiety disorders and the like
- Social problems
I could continue the list forever. The one who plays the machine once every couple of months, without going crazy, is the one with a balanced and exciting life, who already has enough things to look forward to. The oxytocin is already so fully charged, there is no need for an additional vending machine.
People who come out of addiction do this ONLY WHEN they have totally changed their lives. Then it is not the often believed "distraction" but the missing "something" in life. That replaces the search, no matter which one. And if it was an unhappy marriage, job, debts, or or or.
I have always played when I was stressed. Say, the alcohol neighbor from before who made me angry with his vandalism and noise or the annoying girlfriend who always nagged. So the vicious circle began. Today I spit on such people and don't give myself such things anymore. I was also a gambler in which case it is also antisocial. Only stupid people gamble their money. The art is to have control over yourself mentally. Today I play with more thought and if I lose I accept it. There are many circumstances that tempt one to do so.
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Idiot85 wrote on 12/31/2018 at 3:30 PM
Have always played when I was stressed. Say the alcohol neighbor from before who made me mad with his vandalism and noise or the annoying girlfriend who always nagged. So the vicious circle began. Today I spit on such people and don't give myself such things anymore. I was also a gambler in which case it is also antisocial. Only stupid people gamble their money. The art is to have control over yourself mentally. Today I play with more thought and if I lose I accept it. There are many circumstances that tempt one to do so.
That is what I say. There is ALWAYS a reason that brings you to it. have it just super confirmed
That's what you have to tell people, not to look for other hobbies. Change of life. Process traumatic experiences, or or or
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As stupid as it sounds, I for one can't talk to anyone about it. It's not possible... I just keep quiet about it - just about manage it, but losing and not being able to stop still hurts! I have locked myself out of various casinos and now try to cope with a deposit limit of 100 euros, because this amount should not hurt if I lose it...
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Addiction has a reason. Addiction is only the syndrome like sneezing with a cold. But the virus, the cause should be fought.
I myself am a life example. First drugs, alcohol, and now gambling. Even IF he should be addicted, and the potential IS there, stop, it will shift.
Sniffles gone, but cough is there.... Nasal spray has only helped to a limited extent
Addictions always arise from similar patterns
- Boredom in life
- Traumatic experiences
- Inferiority complexes
- Anxiety disorders and the like
- Social problems
I could continue the list forever. The one who plays the machine once every couple of months, without going crazy, is the one with a balanced and exciting life, who already has enough things to look forward to. The oxytocin is already so fully charged, there is no need for an additional vending machine.
People who come out of addiction do this ONLY WHEN they have totally changed their lives. Then it is not the often believed "distraction" but the missing "something" in life. That replaces the search, no matter which one. And if it was an unhappy marriage, job, debts, or or or
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I have always played when I was stressed. Say, the alcohol neighbor from before who made me angry with his vandalism and noise or the annoying girlfriend who always nagged. So the vicious circle began. Today I spit on such people and don't give myself such things anymore. I was also a gambler in which case it is also antisocial. Only stupid people gamble their money. The art is to have control over yourself mentally. Today I play with more thought and if I lose I accept it. There are many circumstances that tempt one to do so.
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That is what I say. There is ALWAYS a reason that brings you to it. have it just super confirmed
That's what you have to tell people, not to look for other hobbies. Change of life. Process traumatic experiences, or or or
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Same problem...:-(
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