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Coping, therapiers, tips... : The way out planned / never implemented >>&gt

Topic created on 28th Dec. 2018 | Page: 1 of 2 | Answers: 11 | Views: 3,574
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The way out planned / never implemented >>&gt

28th Dec. 2018, at 09:37 pm CET#1
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Hello Community (:

I read the thread from table1 and was excited

Briefly my goal before you read on for nothing.
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To find a contact with whom I can openly exchange ideas and motivate each other. Quasi to get out of the whole mess
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I don't want to say too much about myself and the past here, but a couple of bullet points:

2-3 years gambling
Approx. 10.000-12.000€ debts

Otherwise eig stabilized ("been")
Was last deputy market manager (have worked my way up professionally)
Now unemployed

Child and girlfriend
"House" / annex apartment ~120sqm

Um
Interested in capital increase.

Whether real estate or shares

Have every 2. month ne perfect Debt statement and perfect budget book

With debt repayment, installment payment and much more.
Even savings shares, etc.

I would be the perfect man for my girlfriend and child. Have now after 4 years my driver's license again. Could get everything in order and come where I want.

Like riding motocross again (show and teach my kid in 3years)
Own a car
Make a good education again and then earn good money, etc.

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The reality for months > I'm gambling everything away, I'm more of a financial burden for the family, I'm in treatment for depression and at the moment I'm in a phase again...


But I finally want to make this small step, this jump

It is only 1mm into my new/old life
Den everything is planned or could now again set up and then this plan would be there.

I try it for months only 1-2Problems I have in mindset:

-You could win back the debts and could start again immediately
-On payday > the money is not enough behind and in front, it is so hard, I want to distract me immediately or immediately get out of there

Rational
Yes it would be 6months really hard now until all bills are on repayment phase and cleared.
After that it would be another 1 1/2 years until debt free!

And after these 2 years, also for other reasons I do not want to call, we would have about 800 € at our disposal after all deductions!
If I had completed the retraining then would be another 700-800€ MORE at your disposal. That is 1,600 € in the MONTH for my family and me to save, vacation, car, motocross, motorcycle license and everything you want!

The time passes... the exit should be long completed...and if I do not make it soon then there is no future....

Therefore I want to join forces with like-minded people in a similar "good" situation. Who is at the same point, and is interested in new interests (shares / books) etc and wants to turn away there "playfully".

I don't feel ready for therapy yet, but so far that I can't do it alone. Positivity and synergy is what I need.

I don't need tips like talking to my girlfriend again etc. because she will never understand because she hasn't experienced it.

Thank you 🤗


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The way out planned / never implemented >>&gt

28th Dec. 2018, at 09:44 pm CET#2
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Hey and glad you want to take that step.

What have you done so far to make playing as difficult as possible? What does your environment etc. know?

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The way out planned / never implemented >>&gt

28th Dec. 2018, at 09:54 pm CET#3
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Zockertyp89 wrote on 12/28/2018 at 9:44 pm: Hey and glad you want to take this step.

What have you done so far to make gaming as hard as possible for yourself? What does your environment etc know?

When I gambled away my salary of 1,600€ in a few hours, I confessed it to my girlfriend. But since then it's all under the table again... I blocked the most important casino accounts and gave her the cards, as well as changed the online banking password... but as I said it has come to nothing in 2 months, I have the cards and the online banking..

Well since yesterday Is the child again fallen into wells since I have gambled away the 600€ where I should be enough for next month
Because
First, the bills for the Christmas gifts would have made up half, and the money would not have been enough anyway....

But it would have been the beginning....
Instead I have etz 300€ more Debt and must somehow come through the month...
but there I am myself to blame and hate me also for it.... only I can not hang my head.... I MUST... and I WANT... me Is the future grad by the written only really come to mind and that would be great and motivates me...


it will pull me down the whole month now, but it comes again money and there I must be so consolidated and have not let me get down, as well as have changed me (be prepared etc) that it works

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28th Dec. 2018, at 10:12 pm CET#4
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Save hard as nails. That's what I'm planning for the new year and I'm going to do it

Be tough on yourself. As soon as the money from the salary on the account immediately drive to the bank and cash
withdraw. No more thinking about casinos, etc. For transfers the money then immediately after the
Transfer the money immediately after the cash withdrawal

It will be a hard road especially the first few months but stay positive and believe that with the money better
Times come

You could set a limit, 10€ a month as fun and expect nothing. Am of the opinion one must
not stop completely, but only with small amounts

Do not read in a casino forum as another measure. That tempts. Perhaps the best thing to do is to find a hobby that
what distracts and costs less

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28th Dec. 2018, at 10:18 pm CET#5
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Will be a tough fight for you now through the long January and nothing to eat but cans ?

Next month then think of my words, as I said, I will also what I have always verbuttert now
ironically put aside in an envelope and not touch. There can still come so many bonus offers
10 € per month to gamble more not!

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28th Dec. 2018, at 10:31 pm CET#6
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Kopfkino wrote on 12/28/2018 at 22:18: Gonna be an uphill battle for you now through the long month of January and nothing to eat but cans ?

Next month then remember my words, as I said I will also put aside what I have always churned now
ironically put aside in an envelope and not touch. There can still come so many bonus offers
10 € per month to gamble more not!

Des with the cash withdrawal Is ne good idea!

Hobby would cost me just 3000 €, I do not have. But 50-100€ in a share savings plan that would be possible (

And ne so bad with n eat it is not. We are doing well. Only through me we are only good and not damn good...

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28th Dec. 2018, at 10:52 pm CET#7
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P.s. Until 2 months ago, I was taking medication that triggers Gambling addiction, and it even says so under side effects. Before I took the I never had anything to do with gambling

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28th Dec. 2018, at 10:57 pm CET#8
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Athara wrote on 28.12.2018 at 22:52: P.s. Until 2 months ago I took medication that triggers Gambling addiction and under side effects it even says that. Before I took them I never had anything to do with gambling

What kind of drugs are these?

People like to look for external triggers instead of looking for the reason in themselves.

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28th Dec. 2018, at 11:06 pm CET#9
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Hello, you have quite a lot on your mind and you are also thinking a lot. That's good, but maybe it would be advisable to find a competent professional in your situation to channel your thoughts

Otherwise, all the nice plans might turn out to be nothing in the end. And since it has not worked out so far on your own initiative - which I assume now - I would highly recommend you to look for support

And a forum like this one won't help you much and will be rather harmful for you. Those who want to get "clean" and hang around here simply can't let go. Even if other excuses are given like "I've got this under control"

I wish you all the best !

LG

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28th Dec. 2018, at 11:08 pm CET#10
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Zockertyp89 wrote on 12/28/2018 at 10:57 pm
What kind of drugs are these supposed to be?

Which yes people like to look for external triggers instead of looking for the reason in themselves.



I'll send you the link by pn.

Of course, it is also up to you, because you are looking for Yes Iwas. Distraction (displacement reality) to reach his goal faster etc

And that one must also process, enlighten or (temporarily) transform into other habits, which are not so harmful.

For example, instead of drinking a beer every night, drink non-alcoholic every night. But the habit remains the healthier option

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