Coping, therapiers, tips... : That's it - I quit. (Page 2)

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upola wrote on 02.06.2020 at 16:33: Honestly, do you think because he writes a post here and you wüscht him all the best, he stops gambling.
If that would be always so simple.

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Honestly, do you think because he writes a post here and you wish him well, he will stop gambling.

If that would always be so simple.

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Latino wrote on 02/06/2020 at 21:09: @upola


That's not the point at all and everyone who is capable of some empathy should - if he does not encourage him - then just shut up. Everything else is antisocial (in my youth they called it antisocial).


Therefore also from me @Marco19966
I keep my fingers crossed that it works.

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You like me though, right?

You want to forbid me the flap

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Marco1996 wrote on 01.06.2020 at 23:26: Hello everyone.

Even though I have not been the most active user so far, I have been a silent reader for years and had also just recently registered here. I will write the following post to remind myself of my intention and maybe to help one or the other with it.

I am 25 years old and play since I am 18 in Online Casinos and online bookmakers. If I had to calculate it, I have lost about 20.000,- in this time. It's very hard to measure, because of course you also have wins from time to time, but lately nothing works, I pay in hundreds for hundreds and nothing comes. Perhaps fortunately for me, because it can't go on like this.

I have today alone 500, - deposited, each 100, - and it really came GAR nothing, it went only down. I just feel screwed and have such a hate. Especially of course on myself. The day is of course run and the next days too, because I'm a student and have only around 700,- a month at my disposal. I feel absolutely shit and that is exactly the problem. Sure, the money hurts too, but you make yourself completely emotionally dependent on your luck... That can't be it. I hereby swear to myself that I will let it go. It's just burnt out.

I am lucky that I have not incurred any debts because of my gambling addiction. I can't, I don't have an overdraft facility or anything like that. I even have a few thousand aside, but if I think about where I could be today, without the gambling... Not only financially would it make a huge difference, I have made myself dependent on it for years, neglected important things and it also costs time in the end

In the meantime I'm of the opinion that if your life is simply awesome, then it doesn't get out of control like it did with me. I often had phases where I thought zero about gambling, because everything was going well... girlfriend, studies, job, etc.. But when everything sucks on the outside, then you look for happiness in this shitty gambling. Even today I thought, after every hundred I deposited: "I'll get that money back now and even more". Completely irrational, like a real junkie. I feel extremely ashamed.

I would have so much to do for my studies, but no I have gambled away all my coal, which was intended for the month and have of course done nothing at all, because Depri mood prevails

That's it with this, I swear to myself. I have blocked myself everywhere. The only thing that will be really hard for me, when all the soccer games start again, is to stop betting. Because I often had fun with lower stakes. But that also has to stop.

Perhaps one or the other recognizes itself in my story again, I hope I could help you with it. As soon as it strains you, you should stop. To all those who can gamble in a controlled way, with stakes that don't hurt - My respects and have fun and good luck furthermore. But I am not suitable for it.

THAT'S IT!

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