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Coping, therapiers, tips... : Online gambling addiction: tips to help you quit (Page 2)

Topic created on 16th Jun. 2017 | Page: 2 of 4 | Answers: 30 | Views: 17,506
Anonym
Sorry for the spelling am something in a hurry

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Anonym
vivera365 wrote on 06/17/2017 at 17:31

Who I also not.What I meant was that it is a complicated topic.Eihentlich much too komplizeirt to "talk" in a forum more precisely with each other about it.The written word is not equal to the spoken then but.There are misunderstandings because just many things are misunderstood.

Yes, that's true. To write generally about it or to read it can not describe the extent of the feelings. You would have to do that personally

It's a pity that we all come from such distant regions, otherwise you could have realized a meeting or something

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Manniimnu
Hey all
I also have the problem with my boyfriend
We are 4 years zsm but now in the last year more and more extreme and since we also talk about buying a house and children and want to plan is his search a huge problem I can not take him seriously in planning
He knows himself that the gambling is shit and says he stops then he says the next day I play only the Bonuses have paid nux
Then I find paysafe cards in the amount of 50-100 euros within 2 days
I have tried everything with him he always says he will give me his money when the salary comes when it comes he has probably paid all his bills by then
I'm really on the ground and do not know what to do when we argue the gambling is only worse now he tells me he does not gamble he nzr nothing I say but gamble he does trzd he had also threatened me to go if I would not leave him alone but I just can not watch it anymore as the every time these Online Casinos play....
Does anyone have tips on how to deal with it?

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Julian
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Manniimnu wrote on 05/21/2018 at 19:26: Hey everyone
I have the problem also with my friend
We are 4 years zsm but now in the last year more and more extreme and since we also talk about buying a house and children and want to plan is his search a huge problem I can not take him seriously in planning
He knows himself that the gambling is shit and says he stops then he says the next day I play only the Bonuses have paid nux
Then I find paysafe cards in the amount of 50-100 euros within 2 days
I have tried everything with him he always says he will give me his money when the salary comes when it comes he has probably paid all his bills by then
I'm really on the ground and do not know what to do when we argue the gambling is only worse now he tells me he does not gamble he nzr nothing I say but gamble he does trzd he had also threatened me to go if I would not leave him alone but I just can not watch it anymore as the every time these Online Casinos play....
Does anyone have tips on how to deal with it?

Well it's a very delicate situation, it's hard to give tips for something like this because every person carries a different behavior.
The best would be of course if he seeks professional help for his problem, but he must of course pull with it and must want the whole thing himself.

I personally would possibly try to bring him to other thoughts, the Gambling addiction takes place only in the head and many players invest only so much time and ultimately money in it to distract themselves from certain problems or start every time to play as soon as they have boredom, this in turn leads to an everyday habit that is difficult to stop after a certain time.
Try to offer him alternatives for these scenarios, you could go together to some events (concerts, soccer game, etc.) or just go out for a nice meal in a restaurant.

As soon as you undertake more activities, you will also appreciate the handling of money a little more.

If you or your friend are looking for professional help or advice, you can find many websites on the Internet that can help you.
Here you can find more about it: https://www.gamblejoe.com/verantwortung-im-spiel/

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Pagani
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Personally, I am very susceptible to "addictions". For a while it was extremely computer games or other things. Looking back, I can say that at some point day X comes and then the switch flips and I just stop.

With me is also the paradox that I in contrast to earlier quite deliberately deal with money in everyday life. I am almost stingy and store almost only in the sale. Often I do not allow myself to buy something because I find it too expensive and the money is too bad for me. But then I find out at the end of the day that I have gambled away exactly the amount, or even more, that the item would have cost. Something stupid and completely absurd.

Sometimes I think it's even harder to stop when you know you have a problem and admit it, because you officially accept it.

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Anonym
I would also recommend everyone to simply exclude themselves from online casino sites forever. The support can not reverse the exclusion. A new registration in turn violates the terms and conditions and the wins would be void

So if you block yourself on an OC site forever, you can NEVER register again on this site. This is, in my opinion, a great thing!

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Anonym
Pagani wrote on 22/05/2018 at 09:31: I personally am very prone to "addictions". For a while it was quite extreme computer games or other things. Looking back I can say, at some point day X comes and then the switch flips and I just stop.

With me is also the paradox that I in contrast to earlier quite deliberately deal with money in everyday life. I am almost stingy and store almost only in the sale. Often I do not allow myself to buy something because I find it too expensive and the money is too bad for me. But then I find out at the end of the day that I have gambled away exactly the amount, or even more, that the item would have cost. Something stupid and completely absurd.

Sometimes I think it's even harder to stop when you know you have a problem and admit it, because you officially accept it.

That's exactly how it is... I think when you've been in the "shit" financially a few times, no one will lend you any more money and you don't want to support your family anymore and you've been living like a Hartz 4 recipient for a long time despite a good income - then the switch flips for some people.

If you like to gamble and can not leave it but tend to exaggerate, then the very best immediately when money to play is there, set a monthly Deposit limit.

Especially when it comes to gambling, many people have already been muzzled several times until the switch was finally flipped.

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Anonym
The most effective are really the "lifelong" self-lock in the OC and especially all online payment ways limit as far as possible. And if it is by force by Rückbuchubgen. Personally, I would like to have the option to block payment methods in OCs. E.g. no more Visa Card, no more online banking - just leave PSC open. This is in my opinion a very controlled way ... I just personally do not manage to leave it completely - and have all Ocs except Videoslots blocked. But in the end I would love it if all payment providers would play along with a blocking - but unfortunately they all earn too much from it.

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Falko
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Aka wrote on 08.12.2018 at 22:34: The most effective are really the "lifetime" self-lock in OC and especially all online payment ways limit as far as possible. And if it is by force through chargebacks. Personally, I would like to have the option to block payment methods in OCs. E.g. no more Visa Card, no more online banking - just leave PSC open. This is in my opinion a very controlled way ... I just personally do not manage to leave it completely - and have all Ocs except Videoslots blocked. But in the end I would love it if all payment providers would play along with a blocking - but unfortunately they all earn too much from it.

That would be better in any case, if you could block the Online Casinos Deposit options directly, then I would not have to block my online banking. That's what I did a few weeks ago, so that I no longer have so easy to deposit in OCs, if the desire to play is stronger than my will to say no. Now I pay only with Paysafekarte and I have not always there when the desire arises to play.

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Anonym
A first step would be the will to the complete abstinence to the gambling. To do this, in most cases it is necessary to give up your money cards. In addition, one should talk about his problem, whether with his favorite people or with a therapist

After that you have to find your way back to life. By the abstinence one will have on the one hand money and secondly much more time than before and this applies it meaningfully to use. It can take months, even years, to beat the addiction .

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