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Coping, therapiers, tips... : Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling (Page 3)

Topic created on 13th Feb. 2021 | Page: 3 of 4 | Answers: 33 | Views: 7,962
Anonym

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

14th Feb. 2021, at 04:43 pm CET#21
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Dude123 wrote on 02/14/2021 at 4:18 pm: If you treat gambling for what it is...... Your money your power no money no gambling
You are lording it over the stores and not them over you

Most people take it as a distraction from what is not good. If you would put the energy into the not good and would deal with it then gambling would be seen again as what it is...... Nix

I would never be able to completely renounce it. I have no desire for I have so much urge for a paysafe oh man I must not

But I am only entitled to it if 99 percent of my life is lived in such a way that I have to feel bad about nothing

Everything else is just a game of hide and seek, being ashamed and lying

I hope for you that you manage to work on the real reason of your addiction


Very well captured
Wish you Peter8 the best for your future life and that you can really pull it through and make a line under this chapter in your life. It's a long and hard way, but I'm sure you can do it if you want to!

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R3hab
Elite

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

14th Feb. 2021, at 06:02 pm CET#22
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Thank you for your positive energy

Thank you Julian you are also completely right but I do not want to separate as before from gj I like the forum and the people here but that with youtube and co I have already done so no gambling vidz or posts on twitter and insta I follow something anyway not there it is clean😄😁

Focus on my work and myself.
As you said@ Dude123 I want to find out where the real problem comes from

You all are a great help to me
Thank you and when the time comes
I will invite you all for coffee or beer
Much love 4 the best community ❤💚

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Chrizzi
Experienced

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

14th Feb. 2021, at 06:40 pm CET#23
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You can already tell from the reactions how authentic Peter8 has always been.

That this kind of problem is hereditary is true in certain parts. So not the addiction specifically to gambling or alcohol addiction but the susceptibility to something like that. Very superficial, I don't want to go into it too much to avoid discussion about it here, but if you feel confident you can do some research. From experience I would say that people deal with it very differently when they recognize themselves in the explanations about it. So not for everyone.

I read that you do not want too much at once and have people who stand behind you
Wish you and your family all the best and strength to get through this

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Katharina2
Top Member

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

15th Feb. 2021, at 12:25 am CET#24
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@Peter8

Strong step and stay with it....wish you and your family all the strength in the world,
in the fight against 'rip-off artists and scoundrels'. Tell yourself that every day, also helps against
Depri's. All the best...... .

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Anonym

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

15th Feb. 2021, at 09:31 am CET#25
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Peter8 wrote on 02/13/2021 at 19:55: Hello dear community, today I finally did it and locked myself from all casinos

What mega anp**st is the bwin group and tipico there you can easily reopen his account

Do you know how I lock myself there permanently without the acc to be able to activate again?

It is a cheek that gambling addicts are so fooled.

I want to thank everyone here without gamblejoe I would never come so far and all the amounts have helped me a lot

I sat down with my sister and locked myself out of everything the hardest part was confessing it to my family,
to confess it to my family I have shown everything how much money I have gambled away and so on
it took a lot of strength but it is important to have people who help you and best of all your family because they only want the best for you

For everyone who wants to quit I offer to talk about it here and get courage and strength from here
No one is alone and together we can do it

This time I will not delete my account here
But as of today I am no longer a gambler.

Love friends!

I am banned from tipico. You better go to therapy. It is better. Be strong

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wettibernd
Expert

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

15th Feb. 2021, at 10:28 am CET#26
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I wish you and everyone else who wants to go this way all the best. If it becomes difficult then seek professional help, i.e. addiction counseling, self-help group or possibly even inpatient therapy. I've been gambling for almost 40 years and in that time I haven't met a single person who has become happy with gambling (especially with larger amounts) --- the absolute opposite has actually always been the case.

I also know some people who were in inpatient therapy, if you want me to give you a few testimonials from them, feel free to contact me via PN.

Make the best out of the rest of your life.

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bigbig
Experienced

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

15th Feb. 2021, at 12:08 pm CET#27
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All the best from me too. Stay strong

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R3hab
Elite

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

15th Feb. 2021, at 01:10 pm CET#28
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Yes ne self-help group who super but that is virtually you so the forum 😄😄
Werd but also in attack take
This is a good idea wetti, thanks bro

I realize what a difference it makes when you make the topic public
Have no pressure in the head or stress
I think it's because of your positive contributions
And my fam who never let me down and reacted so well, didn't blame me for anything but
Gave me support, have tried so many times alone
Without someone by my side and failed again and again but I never felt like this
These positive feelings in me are overwhelming
Can't describe it and have no idea if it is because of that

And thank you chrizzi
Yes there are things that I still
I should process
There are things that have nothing to do with gambling or so things from my childhood that have shaped me, have seen a lot of violence and experienced
I am afraid to clear all this up
But maybe I have to deal with it
But these are things you just want to forget but can't
I face the shit
Thanks for your contribution bro!


Catherine2 thank you
Those scoundrels exactly 😄
I will keep telling myself that
To all thank you that you are there for a people
To which you have no relation
Just great
🤍



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Saphira
Elite

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

15th Feb. 2021, at 04:39 pm CET#29
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Family is simply everything! I wish you the best on your way and keep my fingers crossed that you manage to stop permanently. It's nice that you have so much support. That's half the battle

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Chrizzi
Experienced

Now it's time to get serious! No more gambling

16th Feb. 2021, at 05:06 pm CET#30
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Peter8 wrote on 15.02.2021 at 13:10 clock: Yes ne self-help group who super but this is virtually you so the forum 😄😄
Werd but also in attack take
This is a good idea wetti, thanks bro

I realize what a difference it makes when you make the topic public
Have no pressure in the head or stress
I think it's because of your positive contributions
And my fam who never let me down and reacted so well, didn't blame me for anything but
Gave me support, tried so many times alone
Without anyone by my side and failed again and again but I have never felt like this
These positive feelings in me are overwhelming
Can not describe it and have no idea if it is because of that

And thank you chrizzi
Yes there are things that I still
I should process
There are things that have nothing to do with gambling or so things from my childhood that have shaped me, have seen a lot of violence and experienced
I am afraid to clear all this up
But maybe I have to deal with it
But these are things you just want to forget but can't
I face the shit
Thanks for your contribution bro!


Catherine2 thank you
Those scoundrels exactly 😄
I will keep telling myself that
To all thank you that you are there for a people
To which you have no relation
Just great
🤍

Sorry, I have to clarify something briefly I give an example of "this is not for everyone"
I was once after a severe depressive phase in a clinic. In order to endure this myself, I resorted to anesthesia at that time and was also assigned to such a ward in the clinic (for detoxification). Since I only needed it myself due to my current condition, I did not know my way around and was accordingly wrongly placed. Many there pushed the argument in the conversation with therapists or stress moment in front of "Do they actually know how hard I had it"
In the situation itself, this also has a small percentage relevance if you include the way
Had the impression it was with many a pretext or excuse to push the current situation on it

Only I noticed that people who were confronted with the idea that susceptibility is hereditary and thus they are not responsible in their eyes for their behavior, use this as an excuse and since others handle it differently, I wrote (also for fellow readers) that can not be dealt with the issue immediately.

Did not know until now that you had to see early dark sides of the human psyche and may in no way equate or compare this with my experience

Just wanted to note that even reading or listening to such connections to their own addiction really does not bring everyone forward

From my own experience and sorry if it's too early for that... Forgetting doesn't work for something like this
They are not to blame for what you are or currently have to bear
They made a terrible contribution to it, for which I hope they got their comeuppance

YOU, however, can always change your situation again if you don't like it
YOU know other ways are right.
YOU through your actions, your way out of the current situation the entgegengegentritts and them at least a little space in the head away try to take away, you understand certainly...
Here again all the best and much strength Peter

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