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I am addicted, who can give me advice?
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Briefly about me, I am 28 years, male and live with my girlfriend and my wonderful 1.5 year old daughter together in normal circumstances.
My problem: apart from having to pay off 3 loans plus disoo and several credit cards, I can't stop gambling. Mostly it is sports betting. My girlfriend knows that I used to do this but for the last 2 years it has become excessive again... I just can't stop and slowly the noose is tightening, meaning I can't pay it all off... I would never go so far as to use the money for rent or money for food etc. but mine is for personal use. Touch but mine for me personally is always mostly right after I get it gone.... I would like to confess it, because I think I need help urgently but I am extremely afraid that my girlfriend packs her things, takes the little one and goes... I do not estimate them so but possible is everything.
I also thought about just telling my father. Father to ask him for money to pay the most necessary and. Then ass cheeks together pinch and then I usually get along
I just have chaos in my head....
I am happy if someone gets in touch
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I am addicted, who can give me advice?
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Hello first,
nice that you are here and I think it's good that you have at least recognized that it does not go on like this. Of course, I recommend that you seek counseling, it does not have to be directly a therapy but it is enough if you can talk somewhere properly and the people are there (eg at Caritas) very well trained and help you to find the causes and to discuss the further procedure. Of course free of charge, but usually you will be asked for a voluntary contribution which can be zero (so it was with me, but I took the advice mainly because of other things).
I know you don't want it because it "comes out" that way and you feel stampeded. You can try to block yourself now on all sites or if there are still bets open put a Deposit limit in (10-20 € per month should be the lowest on most sites). Become aware of a father's responsibility, my uncle's girlfriend left him due to extreme Gambling addiction and he now regrets it. Although he has now fought the gambling addiction (for over a year gambling-free and independent) wants the girlfriend him no more, he pays alimony and lives with subsistence level because everything is cut down until then, he can not motivate himself to work more and is now severely depressed. He has now fought the gambling addiction as you see, but the consequences are more far-reaching and can massively affect the whole life.
The consequences of this cannot be overstated, we all gamble here because we want to win and because it is unbelievable fun. Who once had a good win and a beaming smile wants to have that again. It makes the tired everyday life much more exciting, but unfortunately we are bad losers. When we lose we want to get it back, but on this way often more players lose even more and so we have to get back even more until at some point no win is enough and we gamble again. This is then an almost endless cycle that is difficult to break.
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I am addicted, who can give me advice?
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My sticking point was 400 lost euros. I had myself blocked for life. Talked openly with my husband. It's only been a few days but my need to gamble is zero. I don't sit there and "suffer" but I really have no need at all
I screwed up and got into Debt and now I'm looking forward
My Gambling addiction has lasted about 1 year now and I don't want to be sitting there in a year looking back at thousands more gambled away. Get blocked. Talk to your family. I hope you make it
All the best
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I am addicted, who can give me advice?
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Hi Ankor,
so you wrote really very well and also what is matter. Well, I can also recommend the Caritas and Co. in this matter. They also helped me and referred me to my Debt advisor, who initiated the private insolvency.
With Maxwellhh 77 I can only advise to reveal itself and best in the future the finances of a person of confidence to let administer.so that man evenly still enough money for food
and other important things, but no longer to gamble. An immediate block at the gambling house, casino and also in all OC's where mann has played is advisable.
I had transferred my finances up to the opening of the private insolvency of my mother. Now during the insolvency I have no more money to gamble and that is also very good. Above all, I have no more desire for it - thank God
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What do you want to achieve with sports betting?
Make money with rational analysis, right? You know a lot about soccer, right?
Just ask yourself one thing:
Since you started betting on sports, are you PLUS or MINUS?
99,99% of the time you will answer MINUS.
So? Just let it be, because in the long run you will lose all your money
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