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Coping, therapiers, tips... : Gambling again after gambling therapy (Page 2)

Topic created on 04th Dec. 2019 | Page: 2 of 2 | Answers: 16 | Views: 5,225
G****e
It's not easy. Wish you much success 💪💪

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Falko
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I think he has learned the most important point in the Threapie, in that he realizes now no longer with the goal of playing to earn money with it. Whether it then also remains as soon as the fingers stick again to the mouse to turn slots is another side. In any case, the rhythm should not occur every day to play and with this insight, it is best to turn only on low stakes at the slots. Playing high risks hurts faster and the Risk of chasing old patterns losses increases again significantly by such a way of playing. Such a therapy should actually always pursue the goal of making you completely gambling-free, but maybe it is also possible that you learn through such a therapy to play more responsibly. Wish the TE that he does not crash again and goes to this hobby now with a different perspective than before.

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Reamon
Falko wrote on 04.12.2019 at 17:38: I think he has learned the most important point in the Threapie, in that he realizes now no longer with the goal of playing to earn money with it.Whether it then also remains as soon as the fingers stick to the mouse again to turn slots is another side. In any case, the rhythm should not occur every day to play and with this insight, it is best to turn only on low stakes at the slots. Playing high risks hurts faster and the Risk of chasing old patterns of losses increases again significantly by such a way of playing. Such a therapy should actually always pursue the goal of making you completely gambling-free, but maybe it is also possible that you learn through such a therapy to play more responsibly. Wish the TE that he does not crash again and goes to this hobby now with a different perspective than before.

Exactly. I wanted like probably every gambler my losses again "reinholen". Now I know that is absolute nonsense, because the casino will always win
But in the beginning I only played because I enjoyed it

If I ever start again, there must be a limit that I can't exceed. At the moment I don't have a casino to play in, because I've blocked myself everywhere. I'm sure there's a cheap casino somewhere, but of course that doesn't bring the fun
Due to this circumstance it should be easy to set a limit, be it at my bank or at the casino

My personal goal at the moment is to take a 4 month break

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Anonym
Reamon wrote on Dec 05, 2019 at 11:20 am


If I ever start again there must be a limit which I cannot exceed.

I think this is already the wrong approach. You're already telling yourself that you'll play again.

A gambling addict cannot gamble in a "controlled" way

And therapies or other limits bring nothing at all as long as it does not "click" in your head

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Reamon
I'll get back to you with some feedback

Playing again is just wrong! I have since discarded the idea, because it just doesn't make sense. This thread on Reddit made me rethink. One must realize: Win ≠ Online Slots. It doesn't add up.
After I understood that, I feel better again and the pressure of addiction has become much less.

Thanks for all the honest comments

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Kleinkariert
Expert
Reamon wrote on 12/12/2019 at 11:06: I'm getting back to you with some feedback

Playing again is just wrong! I have since dismissed the idea because it just doesn't make sense. To rethink has brought me this Thread on Reddit. One must become clear: Win ≠ Online Slots. It doesn't add up.
After I understood that, I feel better again and the pressure of addiction has become much less.

Thanks for all the honest comments

The dream of course is to just play and keep cashing out and killing time while earning some extra money. Problem is the slots can be pretty cruel and really take the last penny from you in seconds without flinching.

Quite a few I know who play have the principle <Irgendwann muss was kommen>or <Der zahlt noch bisschen zurück>and then push through multiple deposits and when you can no longer Deposit because no money is available feels really not nice. I then see on the faces that the person is now going to shit and sometimes the person starts to cry (could not stop him to take out a loan and gamble away). I mean yes I know that, I have also had a lot of gambling and at some point I had but no longer want to make my mood dependent on luck.

I gamble a little bit in the casino on special occasions (only very rarely vllt. 2 times a year), but in no case in a gambling house because the booking takes all the fun. I find it pretty hard to stick to limits, because there is no global limit and mostly you then set a limit as a reaction after major losses and as soon as after about 24 hours the desire comes back you are desperately looking for ways to deposit or put the limit back up or you play on different sites and so you exhaust everything again.

Own limits are often not kept or it starts with exceptions that become the rule. It is not very easy to keep control over it.</Der></Irgendwann>

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mk5jas
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Why would you even want to try that in the first place. It doesn't matter if you can control it, you will lose in the long run, so don't do it to yourself. I guess your life isn't screwed up with Debt yet, do you want to take your chances?
If you're thinking about gambling again, step on your own foot, the pain is totally free. Do you really want that lousy feeling again when winning doesn't work out? But no one can stop you here anyway, only yourself

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