Sorry I have to laugh so much. He is in Debt and here people still give tips on how he could make even more debt hahhaha
My goodness, landlord can only make stress when 3 months rent is not paid. What to eat he will surely have clarified. Was certainly only ne short circuit reaction after nem loss of control. Probably everyone knows, otherwise he would have written in here. Nowadays, insolvency only lasts 3 years, so you can get out quickly. So do not immediately paint the devil on the wall. However, it is nice that some really wanted to send him care packages. I think the man has caught himself. There is no more feedback, but I just laughed tears at some tips
Mark005 wrote on 10/31/2022 at 2:13pm: Hey guys,
I'll try to be as brief as possible so as not to bore you.I'm 31 years old and have been addicted to gambling for 13 years, mainly sports betting. Have accumulated a lot of Debt, but I pay it off.
But this month unfortunately it got completely out of control and except for the loan payments I gambled it all away. No rent paid, no other bills and I have nothing left to live on for the entire month. I just don't know anymore if and how it should go on. Unfortunately, my salary does not even allow me to put it off until next month, I have simply reached the limit and the bills will now just pile up and pile up...
I'm extremely desperate, have even thought of suicide...I just do not have the strength to work every month only to somehow settle outstanding items...
Hey Mark,
feel free to get in touch if you need support in dealing with your gambling behavior/debt or have any other questions. Suicide is one way, but it is also a final decision. There are other paths and options that you probably don't even know about yet and therefore haven't considered. If you lack the energy or strength, we are motivated and full of verve. We can not take the topic off your shoulders, but we can be your contact person as far as possible.
FachstelleGSSkoeln wrote on 26/01/2023 at 16:46:
Hey Mark,
feel free to get in touch with us if you need support in dealing with your gambling behavior/debt or have other questions. Suicide is one way, but it is also a final decision. There are other paths and options that you probably don't even know about yet and therefore haven't considered. If you lack the energy or strength, we are motivated and full of verve. We can not take the topic off your shoulders, but we can be your contact person as far as possible.
I am not an expert in the field of gambling addiction but I can imagine that it helps a lot when you realize that you are not alone against the addiction
Mark005 wrote on 10/31/2022 at 2:13pm: Hey guys,
I'll try to be as brief as possible so as not to bore you.I'm 31 years old and have been addicted to gambling for 13 years, mainly sports betting. Have accumulated a lot of Debt, but I pay it off.
But this month unfortunately it got completely out of control and except for the loan payments I gambled it all away. No rent paid, no other bills and I have nothing left to live on for the entire month. I just don't know anymore if and how it should go on. Unfortunately, my salary does not even allow me to put it off until next month, I have simply reached the limit and the bills will just pile up and pile up...
I'm extremely desperate, have even thought of suicide...I just do not have the strength to work every month only to somehow settle outstanding items...
Have you already talked to your landlord etc. about the situation, be in the regard please open and honest!
So they can understand your situation better and can try to help you, conceal definitely brings nothing.
Especially do not borrow more money somewhere to get the lost again, quite dangerous!
If you should read the comment then send times ne pn 😊
I am not an expert in the field of Gambling addiction but I can imagine it helps a lot when you realize that you are not alone against the addiction
You don't have to be a gambling addiction expert to help with gambling addiction Therapy for gambling addiction, for example, is designed for groups i.e. 5 gambling experts and 1 addiction expert.
PS: This is not due to cost saving, but based on many studies that confirm the success of "together against addiction".
FachstelleGSSkoeln wrote on 01/26/2023 at 22:15: You don't have to be a gaming addiction expert to help with gaming addiction Therapy for gaming addiction, for example, is designed for groups i.e. 5 gaming experts and 1 addiction expert. PS: This is not due to cost saving but based on many studies that confirm the success of "together against addiction".
as a therapy candidate, you would be afraid to sit in front of six people and spread your baggage, wouldn't you?
or how big is such a group?
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Whole salary gambled away - the end of the line?
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RiverSong wrote on 27.01.2023 at 15:56:
as a therapy aspirant, you would get scared right away to sit in front of six people and spread your baggage, wouldn't you?
or how big is such a group?
"One" is such an anonymous and generalized word. Everyone has to answer that for themselves. Would you get scared?
Maybe a few words about therapy in general:
How exactly the processes work depends to a certain extent on the facility. An outpatient rehab. Addiction (therapy) usually takes place in the rhythm of 1x group/week & every 2 weeks individual conversation.
With us it is so that first an individual meeting takes place, to arrive, to get to know etc.. Then it can be roughly discussed which goal the person concerned has in mind for the first group. No one is forced to roll out his or her package from front to back in the first group. Everyone brings in what they want to contribute. In addition, most of the people who come to us for therapy have already been in counseling with us, which means that working relationships have been established and trust has been built up to a large extent. We also offer part of the counseling in group form, so the subsequent therapy group also knows each other from the counseling group. It is a gradual process and not from 0 to 100.
In the case of external mediation, it is a different start, but there is individual room for maneuver, and I am sure I can speak for other institutions in this regard. Very important: Therapy is an opportunity, not an obligation. But if you don't talk, you can't be helped.
How large are the groups? In the case of gambling, 6 people is sufficient. With alcohol and drug addicts, it can be ten to twelve. Drug addicts have six to eight.
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My goodness, landlord can only make stress when 3 months rent is not paid. What to eat he will surely have clarified. Was certainly only ne short circuit reaction after nem loss of control. Probably everyone knows, otherwise he would have written in here. Nowadays, insolvency only lasts 3 years, so you can get out quickly. So do not immediately paint the devil on the wall. However, it is nice that some really wanted to send him care packages. I think the man has caught himself. There is no more feedback, but I just laughed tears at some tips
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Hey Mark,
feel free to get in touch if you need support in dealing with your gambling behavior/debt or have any other questions. Suicide is one way, but it is also a final decision. There are other paths and options that you probably don't even know about yet and therefore haven't considered. If you lack the energy or strength, we are motivated and full of verve. We can not take the topic off your shoulders, but we can be your contact person as far as possible.
Many greetings
Cologne Gambling addiction Center
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I am not an expert in the field of gambling addiction but I can imagine that it helps a lot when you realize that you are not alone against the addiction
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Have you already talked to your landlord etc. about the situation, be in the regard please open and honest!
So they can understand your situation better and can try to help you, conceal definitely brings nothing.
Especially do not borrow more money somewhere to get the lost again, quite dangerous!
If you should read the comment then send times ne pn 😊
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Isn't it 3?
You should still remain human, but for this the person concerned must play with open cards and you can better agree on n compromise.
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You don't have to be a gambling addiction expert to help with gambling addiction Therapy for gambling addiction, for example, is designed for groups i.e. 5 gambling experts and 1 addiction expert.
PS: This is not due to cost saving, but based on many studies that confirm the success of "together against addiction".
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as a therapy candidate, you would be afraid to sit in front of six people and spread your baggage, wouldn't you?
or how big is such a group?
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Whole salary gambled away - the end of the line?
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"One" is such an anonymous and generalized word. Everyone has to answer that for themselves. Would you get scared?
Maybe a few words about therapy in general:
How exactly the processes work depends to a certain extent on the facility. An outpatient rehab. Addiction (therapy) usually takes place in the rhythm of 1x group/week & every 2 weeks individual conversation.
With us it is so that first an individual meeting takes place, to arrive, to get to know etc.. Then it can be roughly discussed which goal the person concerned has in mind for the first group. No one is forced to roll out his or her package from front to back in the first group. Everyone brings in what they want to contribute. In addition, most of the people who come to us for therapy have already been in counseling with us, which means that working relationships have been established and trust has been built up to a large extent. We also offer part of the counseling in group form, so the subsequent therapy group also knows each other from the counseling group. It is a gradual process and not from 0 to 100.
In the case of external mediation, it is a different start, but there is individual room for maneuver, and I am sure I can speak for other institutions in this regard. Very important: Therapy is an opportunity, not an obligation. But if you don't talk, you can't be helped.
How large are the groups? In the case of gambling, 6 people is sufficient. With alcohol and drug addicts, it can be ten to twelve. Drug addicts have six to eight.
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