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Gambling addiction in general: Suicide thoughts loss without end...

Topic created on 19th Jun. 2019 | Page: 1 of 2 | Answers: 14 | Views: 5,281
Maloyko
people I can no longer stop (
at the beginning of january I had won after 1000€ Deposit 8000€ and since I paid it out... I have daily 50-100€ deposited every day until now am over 20,000€ in the minus every day I get free spins on 1-2€ times on 5€ it still goes only downhill my pysche is completely broken by it I feel just f**ked I'm just missing the words that can not wahrseinn that nothing goes more that not even a few euros come... still loss .... i lost my pysche so much i just hate these Online Casinos they make you addicted and then they take everything away from you to the kidneys... for 3-4 months no win even spielothek would have made more money than these scammers i can bet on my life that ip, mac, username any f**king data is stored and the user is recognized every time no matter what online casino site you play they know exactly that you are and take you out every time these f**king scammers

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Anonym
Stay strong, try your Scheiss sucht bissel to shift, look for you what distracts you, with me klappts with online games in addition, I'm at the addiction treatment there I fill out everything with one that helps me but he says that it can still take 2 to 3 months until I get a therapy burst, I've decided for a long-term therapy that goes min 6 months and can be extended if necessary to 1 year...it's up to you what you do now.i also had murder thoughts myself and thought why the shit but life is a gift we just forget that every now and then, and what helped me was that I thought of my family and that I do not want to and can not do something like that to her

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Dutch78
Expert
The topic is too serious for me to comment superficially here.
You will certainly find encouragement here, but if you really have suicidal thoughts, only professional and medical help will help you, and unfortunately you will not find it here.
I can only give you the advice to confide in your family doctor and tell him about your situation and your suffering.
Maybe it will help you a bit to get all the garbage off your chest, he will surely be able to help you.
I don't know how acute the whole thing is for you at the moment, but there are also really good hotlines that you can reach 24 hours a day, so they have an open ear for you at any time when your thoughts get out of hand.
You can reach the pastoral care from Germany under 0800-1110111.
The call is free of charge, even from your cell phone.
I keep my fingers crossed that you will get everything under control again, life has so much to offer each of us, even if there are situations where it does not seem so.

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Kleinkariert
Expert
Please seek urgent help, there is almost nothing more you can write. You have to be strong, finally accept the loss and stop gambling. It is actually impossible to get out of such an addiction to a normal relationship with gambling anymore.

Secure the financially, consult with the bank about the debts. You can certainly set up a monthly affordable rate so that you can continue your life at least decently with small cutbacks. You still have so much you can do, life is yours and you can finally relax and try other things. It sucks to be in the red, the loss of the win will hurt for a long time but when you get out of it you are like a new person.

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Insa24
Top Member
I join the previous speakers and you know what is really now IMPORTANT: as soon as you are in any OC again today, before you log out, look for the tab Player Protection/Gaming Limits/Responsible Gaming etc. in your profile. At the very least, please set a Deposit limit everywhere there. Please do this in every online casino where you are. That's three clicks and they keep your money together for now
EUR 20,000 is crap, yes, but not an impossible thing that will draw you forever.
You are stronger than the gambling and the casinos!!! 💚

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Bvb1995
Expert
Believe me your life is worth more than 20k chop it off and get help

Lock yourself everywhere in casinos with help will be what fight

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Anonym
You should get away from this idea of taking your own life. 20.000 is manageable in terms of the buzzer, and you'll get it sorted out. So cheer up and seek help. Addiction counseling centers, your family doctor or your family should be your first points of contact.

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Daniel
Elite
Hello Maloyko and welcome to the forum.

Although the community has already said most of it, I would still like to summarize it briefly. You outline thoughts that have already expressed some ex-users here and you can only give them the same advice over and over again:


  • Get away from suicidal thoughts: Some players have more than 100,000€ in Debt and still have reached agreements with the banks to pay back their gambling debts. It is not easy, but possible to get out of the debt trap. It is best to make an appointment with your local bank.

  • Try to get away from gambling: Go in for sports, try new hobbies or meet with friends or family.

  • Block yourself from all online casinos: Write to the customer support of all Online Casinos you have played at and get blocked for gambling addiction. This will give you a break and help you come down.

  • Seek professional help: If you really want to get away from gambling, you should start professional therapy. Since it sounds very acute, I recommend the Glücksspielsucht e. V. http://www.gluecksspielsucht.de/. There you can find a free Gambling addiction hotline or online counseling with instant chat. You can also find telephone counseling at https://www.spielen-mit-verantwortung.de/.



If self-help groups seem easier to you, you can find them at Gamblers Anonymous

My recommendation is to seek professional help. Also stay away from the forum here. Finally, there are winning pictures, winning videos, news about new online games and online casinos - which partly tempt some users to play. We have a function to delete or pause your account. You can do so by visiting https://www.gamblejoe.com/einstellungen/ and clicking on "Pause Account" or "Delete Account".

You may also find game control programs and apps helpful. We had tried gamban once in the past - at least a first impulse the software can partially ward off. But it is only a help and does not replace professional therapy!
The whole GambleJoe team wishes you a lot of strength for the fight against addiction. We hope that you will seek professional help in one of the mentioned ways and get away from gambling.

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Anonym
Hello Maloyko,

so you need help immediately, and really immediately !!!

Please go to your family doctor as soon as possible. Furthermore, you should contact the Caritas addiction counseling. I do not know your financial possibilities. At Caritas you have to wait a long time until you get an appointment. Therefore, a lawyer who is also specialized in private insolvency law can help you faster.

You have the possibility to apply for a private insolvency.

You should be sent to a Gambling addiction therapy as soon as possible. This can take months.

Suicide is not a solution believe me. I also have 50.000 Euro debts and am in a private insolvency. It has been going on for over 2 years now and in less than 4 years I will be out of it and Debt free.

In addition, you should now really come to the realization absolutely and immediately stop with the games. If you continue to play then that will be your downfall.

Get help immediately by having someone you trust manage your finances and pay you only pocket money.

Please go to the doctor first thing in the morning at 8:00am and talk openly and honestly about this.I know it is a hard walk and it is hard to stop gambling. I have relapsed a few times and now I have the strength to stop gambling

A really good option to get away from money gambling is computer games. They can be addictive but you don't play for money and they are distracting and exciting.

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Simbda
Top Member
Daniel wrote on 06/20/2019 at 13:27: Hello Maloyko and welcome to the forum.

While the community has already said most of it, I would still like to summarize it briefly. You outline thoughts that some ex-users here have already expressed and one can only give them the same advice over and over again:


  • Get away from suicidal thoughts: Some players have more than 100,000€ in Debt and still have reached agreements with the banks to pay back their gambling debts. It is not easy, but possible to get out of the debt trap. It is best to make an appointment with your local bank.

  • Try to get away from gambling: Play sports, try new hobbies or meet friends or family.

  • Block yourself from all online casinos: Write to the customer support of all Online Casinos you have played at and get blocked for gambling addiction. This will give you a break and help you come down.

  • Seek professional help: If you really want to get away from gambling, you should start professional therapy. Since it sounds very acute, I recommend the Glücksspielsucht e. V. http://www.gluecksspielsucht.de/. There you can find a free Gambling addiction hotline or online counseling with instant chat. You can also find telephone counseling at https://www.spielen-mit-verantwortung.de/.



If self-help groups seem easier to you, you can find them at Gamblers Anonymous

My recommendation is to seek professional help. Also stay away from the forum here. Finally, there are winning pictures, winning videos, news about new online games and online casinos - which sometimes tempt some users to play. We have a function to delete or pause your account. You can do so by visiting https://www.gamblejoe.com/einstellungen/ and clicking on "Pause Account" or "Delete Account".

You may also find game control programs and apps helpful. We had tried gamban once in the past - at least a first impulse the software can partially ward off. But it is only a help and does not replace professional therapy!
The whole GambleJoe team wishes you a lot of strength for the fight against addiction. We hope that you will seek professional help in one of the mentioned ways and get away from gambling.

Right. There is always a way out. Even if sometimes you don't see it right away. But taking your own life for anything is not a solution for anything. We have only one. After every low comes a high

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