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Gambling addiction in general: Please help / tips - quit or play? Which sites are lucrative?

Topic created on 13th Dec. 2018 | Page: 1 of 5 | Answers: 47 | Views: 10,957
Loser
Visitor
Good morning friends,

yesterday evening I came across this forum and I am very happy about it. Some forum contributions (especially in this topic) I have read and am partly very shocked how bad the dimensions are with one or the other. I can actually only laugh at my "little problem", but it is still very stressful for me personally. So I start times:

I was until 1 year ago (to the month) almost every day in the arcade and burned at Blazing Star again and again my money, ultimately it was so that I was after work until night in the arcade and then all at once have burned everything, was like crazy 10x at the savings bank and asked me how that can be. I finally got out with a lot of luck at a machine with the last euros everything and said puhhh never again. I confessed it to my girlfriend, who didn't know anything about it until then, I kept it all from her. So now all was well I was since then never again in the gambling house. About 24 hours ago I played Poker on the most popular poker platform (the contradictory: I play there relatively reasonable, am also a good poker player and win sometimes what or if I Deposit then smaller amounts, tournaments usually last 1-2 hours or sometimes more). Out of nowhere came a window from this poker site and before I could think about it I was in the online casino game and gambled for my money from my bankroll. I pressed once and only then saw it. End of game: I played for hours, at first it was fun I was winning and then the losing streak started. Deposits of 20-30€, once, twice, have ultimately until early in the morning my entire money verballert incl. Christmas bonus and wonder how that can be. I have to get it out again I think to myself, there I was then just again in and have the very last euros still verballert, nothing went more.

You will now say that I should look for HIlfe, but I want to get the money back in part. Now I have seen (in retrospect of course mega stupid) that there are good and better sites such as SlotsMillion, Videoslots or RIZK. With Bonuses, free spins, all this would not have degenerated so badly, I was like out of my mind (I know this from before like a zombie totally apathetic and like in trance) gesterrn night. That was not planned at all and is probably calculated by the Provider so.

If I now by Paysafe card (I think as a gambler is a wise decision) log on and play, which sites can you recommend. Slotsmillion this Book of Ra Abklatsch (think that's called Book of Dead) or elsewhere? Can you realistically win something with 20-60 € with 10 cents bets (10 lines à 0.01 €)?

I totally thank you for your ideas, even if you want to talk me out of it I am open to it. The thing is: I'm mega awesome ashamed and was so depressed yesterday and hated myself so much that I would have loved to punch myself in the mouth. On the other hand, it's "only" an annoying loss coming back in, I haven't blown any Debt or credit and am now deep in debt. Not yet.

LG

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DieBlackjackBros
Rookie
Reflect on yourself
You just show that perfect behavior on the long run to fall into the well-tried gambling addiction. This will affect your general condition if you lose even more and will certainly affect your condition and your relationship (negatively, I know this myself)
What I can advise you is to stop early, because now you are no longer playing for fun, but with the ulterior motive to win a lot of lost money again, or in general you are only focused on winning money, and that is dangerous.

What do you do if you lose even more? Shoot in even more and hate yourself even more afterwards?
If I were you, I would forget about money and stop gambling immediately, it's obvious that you are going in the wrong direction in the long run
Be honest with yourself.

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Loser
Visitor

DieBlackjackBros wrote on 12/13/2018 at 06:12: Reflect yourself
You just point out that perfect behavior on long term to fall into the well-worn gambling addiction. This will affect your overall condition if you lose even more and certainly affect your condition and relationship (negatively, I know it myself)
What I can advise you is to stop early, because now you are no longer playing for fun, but with the ulterior motive to win a lot of lost money again, or in general you are only focused on winning money, and that is dangerous.

What do you do if you lose even more? Shoot in even more and hate yourself even more afterwards?
If I were you, I would forget about money and stop gambling immediately, it's obvious that you are going in the wrong direction in the long run
Be honest with yourself.

Thanks for your honest comment. You are right! Only I wish I could forget the night from Tue to Wed. What was going on there, everything was good, really everything and then this. I also find it totally bad that there is this online casino section on Pokerstars and generally also so Poker games are associated with gambling (new modes felt every week). Would so like to get out with 20,40,60€ again via Paysafe at least 300€. Then that would be a lesson not quite so hard. Especially since I pay in other areas, if I want to buy something though also times more, but then of the quality is suitable. So I deal with it: Do I need it and if so is it really good? Both are absolute bullsh1t when gaming. Only here you read about people who have made many, many thousands (of course, just here in the game addiction thread rather the opposite which is probably more in line with reality!) EUR times even. 13.000 in one evening, how do I pay that off. And I imagine that I also times (that also annoys my girlfriend, because that is unfortunately so my guiding principle is not related to gambling, but in general) luck, never I have luck. How much I was happy when I with the last EUR this totally bad Friday night 1 year ago still turned to good and NEVER AGAIN gambled and then happens such a 5chei55e... I was totally sane, was not in the arcade and also not in the casino, where umpteen machines are, but was only with my Pokerstars pokerspielen (in which I even won, which was then in a few minutes already gone).


So do you think 20,40,60€ (the last!) "risk" for 2-300 € at least, would be rather counterproductive for me? In the end the money is completely gone, but I also think to myself: if I don't try it the money is gone anyway, why not Risk something small again? About good sites (Slotsmillion,Rizk, Videoslots) with bonuses... maybe it works out? Hmmmm, my head tells me not to be a moron, but I don't want to realize that the money is gone. Yesterday I was really depressed and hated myself more than I have in a long time, I thought I had a psychosis because I couldn't believe what I had been doing for hours and it was like dancing with the devil

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DieBlackjackBros
Rookie
Gambling is dancing with the devil.
I have also won several thousand but you have to see it in the long term.
If after 2-3 months you play excessively again and lose, you won nothing. And that happens, don't worry.

Whether you play, you must know, think rather you have already decided to Risk again. I can only advise you to stop gambling for the sake of your well-being and your relationship. First gambling affects you and your financial and later on your relationship. Unfortunately, I speak from experience and was myself once someone who pitied others here. It goes faster than you think.

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tobineu
Amateur
I know the exhausting thoughts the day after too well. Slipped into it over 5 years ago. Tentatively for the first few days. Then the anger of losing money that I could have used to buy myself something nice. I didn't want to accept it and deposited almost every day. Until the overdraft was exhausted - then transferred from the savings account slice by slice to be back in my checking account in the plus. And then I had 1000-2000 Eur transferred. Until there was almost nothing left on the savings account. Sickly it went on for months from one to the next loan, then rescheduling to combine several loans. Until I had accumulated well over 30,000 euros in debt.

When transferring from the savings account and with each new Kredet I told me EVERY TIME very firmly and resolutely, I play now guaranteed no more. Then the money was on my account and suddenly then but again the thought 500 euros maximum go already, that I at least again 1000 raushol, then I stop but finally. Instead, I shot again countless times until PayPal closed at 2000 euros a day. Good wins I felt with thoughts of the losses as too little and ballasted with higher and higher spins everything down again, because still what better would have to come

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tobineu
Amateur
in the forum here you feel a bit lonely with this loss of control at first glance. There are sure to come here again sermons "how can you only...". I believe however that if everyone here at the nose grabs it nevertheless the one or other more gives, which knows this (regular) loss of control.

I myself have a reasonable job and my professional and other life decisions are solid. In the game, my thoughts all too often go in a disastrous direction

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Loser
Visitor
that all sounds so bad so it is also. Fortunately it was only the Christmas money so something I had too much. Nevertheless, I have nothing saved (maybe better so?!) I do not want to crack a high score and do not want to get into the big Debt trap and existential hardship. It would be nice to correct this loss at least half. That would still be annoying but at least then with 2 black eyes. Best I leave it, the feeling that I could possibly still win something irritates me but the fear that it will be even worse is greater. On the other hand vll again via paysafe 2x20€ in this stupid online casino game from PokerStars (do not know exactly how it is called), in which I have already invested so much. At some point they have to spit out something. I idiot had tried to correct the loss had the chance to get away with only a black eye and was greedy and even gambled away everything + more hundreds of euros I threw after

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tobineu
Amateur
I tried to correct my loss countless times. Instead it went down even further
Had similar thoughts to get at least a little bit back again

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SevenEleven
Experienced

Loser wrote on 12/13/2018 at 06:43 AM

Only I wish I could forget the night from Tue to Wed. What was going on, everything was good, really everything and then this
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it was like dancing with the devil

Good morning, you should NEVER forget that Tuesday to Wednesday night. Be HAPPY that you had exactly this experience and lost everything. That increases your chances of just slipping past doom by 99.9%. I wish you that you will recognize the shot across the bow as such and that you will be able to chalk up the wasted money - paradoxically - as "good luck".

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Loser
Visitor
i believe that. Oh man... in comparison I have really pillepalle problems .... stupid is that I have thrown another 60 this morning. Man... Dirty game. Maybe I dare to approach again that's it. 60€ with the goal to get out several hundred that would be really great. But then that was it. I could have invested the money in Poker (where you also have to have skill and just a little luck) so well I moron >&lt

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