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Gambling addiction in general: Need help & advice (Page 6)

Topic created on 10th Apr. 2018 | Page: 6 of 8 | Answers: 74 | Views: 14,065
Gamebeenden
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12th Apr. 2018, at 09:57 pm CEST#51
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@casinolady

That sounds very good apartment cleaning, that creates really free head for new!

i've just done, did really good, but there is still a lot to do .

As soon as I sort my apartment I have the feeling the addiction decreases, I think one of the reasons why you zockt is the private life, you just have the perfect zufluchtsort.
That is why it is important to order his life clearly, to know exactly what is going on, no chaos at home!

This has everything to do with the physical, if you know how to keep it clean, hardly anything can happen.

And gambling with limits is just barely manageable because I personally, always want more, think even if I had 1 million on the account even this I would still like to increase something:-), totally sick, but it is so.
One is simply not seed, no matter how much you have.

I'm sorry about your loss that you have brought in.

I would like to be happy back to the origin with nothing, I still remember this feeling that was freedom.

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Gamebeenden
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13th Apr. 2018, at 09:35 pm CEST#52
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Feel extremely unhappy today,I am kind of mourning my financial loss.

How I would love to just have my money back and end it all...too much..I don't know if I can handle that.
I want to.

I don't know what to do.
Do I Risk another large sum to get some of it back?
This is floating in my mind all the time, how to go about it.

I am just not comfortable with the situation as it is right now.

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Stromberg
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13th Apr. 2018, at 09:41 pm CEST#53
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Gamebeenden wrote on 04/13/2018 at 9:35 pm: Feeling extremely unhappy today,kinda mourning my financial loss.

How I would love to just have my money back and end it all...too much..I don't know if I can handle it.
I want to.

I don't know what to do.
Do I Risk another large sum to get some of it back?
This is floating in my mind all the time, how to go about it.

I am just not comfortable with the situation as it is right now.


If you lose any more, you'll feel even worse.
And it is much more likely that you will lose than that you will win.
What you have lost, you have lost, it is what it is. Try to accept that and don't make it worse.
And cheer up, such 1st world problems will not get you down now!

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Anonym

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13th Apr. 2018, at 09:45 pm CEST#54
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Gamebeenden, I was like that for 10 years too, so I ended up losing much higher amounts than you. I also wish I could go back to 10 years ago, but that won't happen unless I hit a jackpot. But running after your last money and throwing it away won't help.
Sure, if you keep playing you have a chance to get something back, but the Risk is 1:1000 and it's not worth it
I have now set myself small limits of 30 - 50 euros that I can Deposit and thus no longer fall into the danger of depositing 1000 euros in the evening.

Try it and you will see how your account balance grows by not playing anymore...... ... ... because every euro you don't lose brings you closer to your old life.
Believe me, I speak from experience, I have lost 1000 - 4000 Euro a month, actually money that I wanted to use for my life and important investments in my company.

In my opinion, maybe you don't always need therapy, but a strong will and always remember that your money balance will increase again if you don't gamble.

Try to give yourself a reward for every day you stayed strong and didn't gamble anything away.

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Gamebeenden
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13th Apr. 2018, at 10:08 pm CEST#55
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@Stromberg

You said a good thing, if I lost any more, I would probably be worse off than I am today.

@Gamer777

That is so insanely hard to accept that I have given away a large sum of money, so to speak.Tut already hurt you know, if one then calculates that one would have to work 3 years full z.b to have the money back, it is just Eckelhaft.

I bought a lot of things today, basically little things, and I was not in the matter all day where I was on the road, it was such a depressing feeling, as if there is nothing else but play and get out loss, such a thing makes me down.

Should I get drunk once to come to my senses, I don't really know.

You say it took you 10 years, when I think about it I get scared.
To make the leap, to just close the door, that must be possible somehow.

I just want to have my peace, have fun with the little things in life, or better said, generally have fun.

Get out of the thinking hole, do you know that when you're brooding all the time? That makes you crazy in terms of time.

Two hours ago I was in the bathroom in front of the mirror talking to myself that I will make it, etc..

I can't tell you exactly, I'm too distracted inside at the moment, but I have to be careful that I don't fail completely, that would be unnecessary.

If I could make the jump now, that would be worth an infinite amount.


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Anonym

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13th Apr. 2018, at 10:29 pm CEST#56
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That you have awesome described .just to think is really good.keep doing this,thinking the way is right

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Anonym

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13th Apr. 2018, at 10:55 pm CEST#57
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It's hard to give advice, because here in the forum many are more or less addicted to gambling. I, for example, have always played only online, except once nen 20er at the Autohof in so nen machine put. Therefore it does not tempt me to go to the Spielo which I never do.
Do you have someone, e.g. wife or partner, to whom you could hand over your money matters?
The best thing would be to block online banking, or delete online access altogether.
The problem is, you have to want to do it. I found myself downloading a blocker program onto my PC, where you can't see any casino sites anymore, and you can't delete it.
I have downloaded several times but days later always reset the PC, or reset to the state of a few days ago and thus the program was deleted again.
I have been logged into maybe 100 casinos and have deleted myself from most of them because of Gambling addiction or other reasons. But that did nothing because I have registered every few days again at new casinos. This went on for many years, I also borrowed money and got a lot of gifts to solve my money problems.
Unfortunately I had good income, but instead of paying my outstanding bills I gambled the money away.
The result is that I have good income and also have to pay taxes to the tax office, which I can not pay, so account garnishments, etc.. I am now working off what I did wrong, it will take a few years but it will work.
You are not that bad off yet, you still have some money left. Let it be a lesson to you what others have experienced here and just hold back with playing. Yes, easy to say but it works.
Set yourself in the Online Casinos a block of 50 euros a week or click on the cooling phase, so 10 days block or so.
You'll make it, I can do it too and I guarantee I've lost 20 times as much as you.

Get a few bills from your account, look at them carefully and then go to a store and buy yourself something nice or invite someone to dinner. Even with 50 euros you can do a lot, better than burning them in 5 minutes in a vending machine, it brings nothing,

Stay hard and set limits, despite 10 years of playing I manage that now and I can better appreciate the value of money.

But you need the iron will, it brings nothing if you break your own rules, stay hard to yourself !

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Gamebeenden
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13th Apr. 2018, at 11:08 pm CEST#58
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@Domesum

Yes what can I say, the fact is I got into a crappy search, please excuse the expression.

I am a little sad and disappointed.


@Gamer777

I tried to unlock my online banking at the bank yesterday,no chance .
Because?
No ID had with.Which in retrospect is good,or very good!

But you see, I locked it a few days ago and suddenly? I wanted to unlock it again?
This is all so two-part this whole game in which you are, you understand and on the other hand you understand nothing.

It is absolutely right that you have to "stand firm" in order to see any improvement at all.

Precisely because I still have half of the money, I should have the incentive, the basis is given to live normally under a single condition, not to play.

This is just one point that would trigger a chain reaction.

One thing is for sure, online banking will not be activated.
I do not want to take the risk.

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Anonym

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13th Apr. 2018, at 11:45 pm CEST#59
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But addiction is not something that is stronger than the firm will. the firm will when that is there then the addiction is f**ked.

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Anonym

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13th Apr. 2018, at 11:51 pm CEST#60
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domesum wrote on 04/13/2018 at 23:45: addiction is but nothing stronger than the firm will.the firm will if that is there then the search your ass...

Even if you often do not want to admit it - but you're right. Earlier before my time as a player I would never have come to the idea to gamble. When you play for a long time, you think there is no other way.
You should just think about the fact that the majority does not play and that is no problem for them......

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