Gambling addiction in general: Life already gambled away?

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Mark005 wrote on 31/12/2018 at 07:52: Moin guys,
I just need to get something off my chest, because I absolutely don't know what to do at the moment and I'm a bit done with life, although my situation is probably not nearly as hopeless as many others...
I am Mark, 27 years old and a betting addict.
I lost my job, my fiancée, my apartment, my car, everything is gone due to addiction. I currently live with my little brother (what more can I say?), I have about 8000 euros in Debt and 500 euros of that has to be paid during the week, which I can't do. My brother knows about most of it and helps me where he can, also manages my main bank account. Unfortunately, every gambler knows how to get fresh money again and again, so now the 500 euros I have to raise by the end of the week. I don't want to tell my brother about it, I have disappointed and lied to him often enough, I can't take it anymore.... It's not primarily about the money why I think my life is over (am definitely suicidal). It's much more about the fact that addiction completely rules my life outside of money. Every thought revolves around it, every minute I follow livescores, I can't take it anymore.
I gambled away 3000 euros in December alone, when everything could have been better. Money that I could have used for an apartment and a new start, money that is unfortunately gone. I just can't go on...

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Ankor wrote on 31.12.2018 at 09:00: Sounds very bad at first glance, but briefly thought about your situation is really problem-free back into the right field. First of all, you have to look at what is coming up to you, that is, the debts or the claims must be paid - if that is not possible would first be a private insolvency possible and there you can help a psychological counselor (Caritas or other organization) free of charge to better deal with the situation.

You surely feel miserable, because of the many losses you had now. But if you look at what is recoverable: job, car, apartment, ... you can definitely look up. It is not a nice situation, but also nothing that will never get better. The important thing is that you do not sit still now, but force yourself to become active. I also know that with the suicidal thoughts, but it is a contradiction in itself. You tell yourself that everything is easier and that you are doing people a favor, but it's not like that. Your brother would be sad to lose you, in general it would be a pity to give up now without trying to get better. It's not easy to get back on your feet, but believe me it can get better with a little effort, even if it's not 100% like it used to be.

Get help, people are trained and don't look down on you, they want to help you and if you let them, it will work. I wish you all the best, if you have questions about insolvency, advice, etc. you can always ask here or by PN.

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Mark005 wrote on 31/12/2018 at 07:52: Moin guys,
I just need to get something off my chest, because I absolutely don't know what to do at the moment and I'm a bit done with life, although my situation is probably not nearly as hopeless as many others...
I am Mark, 27 years old and a betting addict.
I lost my job, my fiancée, my apartment, my car, everything is gone due to addiction. I currently live with my little brother (what more can I say?), I have about 8000 euros in Debt and 500 euros of that has to be paid during the week, which I can't do. My brother knows about most of it and helps me where he can, also manages my main bank account. Unfortunately, every gambler knows how to get fresh money again and again, so now the 500 euros I have to raise by the end of the week. I don't want to tell my brother about it, I have disappointed and lied to him often enough, I can't take it anymore.... It's not primarily about the money why I think my life is over (am definitely suicidal). It's much more about the fact that addiction completely rules my life outside of money. Every thought revolves around it, every minute I follow livescores, I can't take it anymore.
I gambled away 3000 euros in December alone, when everything could have been better. Money that I could have used for an apartment and a new start, money that is unfortunately gone. I just can't go on...

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Idiot85 wrote on 12/31/2018 at 3:33 pm: You can't gamble life away. Stop crying and take the reins. That's what someone who gambled away 200000+ tells you. Start tomorrow. Try your head ten thousand is nothing. No world downfall. Good luck

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voerde wrote on 31/12/2018 at 09:09
moin


have really plan of insolvency etc.?

i think I'll come back the days on it ifns ok #
mfg

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