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Gambling addiction in general: I am so sorry (Page 2)

Topic created on 18th Dec. 2018 | Page: 2 of 4 | Answers: 37 | Views: 8,397
Zauberfee
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I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 11:36 am CET#11
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Zauberfee wrote on 18.12.2018 at 01:31
Yes we do apparently, I must now also only probably learn to accept help, I'm at a point where I realize alone will probably so in the long run nothing more, one is also no longer younger.

You have already achieved a lot in your life, that you have defeated the alcohol addiction, I find that really enormous. That was certainly not easy.
Yes, that's it addiction displacement is nasty, I often have it with food, think that's all a kind of self-destruction.

I'm sorry about your friend, something like that marks you in life because it hurts so much. It never goes away, you can only learn to live with it.

Yes I am first only in normal conversation therapy and at the psychologist, it is so hard to get places, from the 15.01.2019.

I often have the feeling that when things are going well I get scared that something bad will happen again, and then I mess up
i also lost my mother as a child at an early age, I don't think I've come to terms with that yet.

Do you still play if I may ask?

Dear Ronny1982 the question with the play you still has done, have read you have won a Paysafecard.

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Anonym

I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 11:46 am CET#12
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Zauberfee wrote on 18.12.2018 at 11:36 am
Dear Ronny1982 the question with the play you still has settled, have read you have won a Paysafecard.

So, with the play I have never had problems. I play only for 2.5 years and that but really just for fun. I have set myself clear limits and rules from the beginning. Play only with smallest stakes (0.10 - 0.15 cents) and with a maximum loss of 30 euros I play nothing more in the month. Clear rules..but I also keep them

I said yes..I have to be careful all my life not to get addicted to something else again

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Zauberfee
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I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 11:54 am CET#13
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Ronny1982 wrote on 12/18/2018 at 11:46 AM
Well, I have never had any problems with gaming. I've only been playing for 2.5 years and that but really just for fun. But I have set myself clear limits and rules from the beginning. Play only with smallest stakes (0.10 - 0.15 cents) and with a maximum loss of 30 euros I play nothing more in the month. Clear rules..but I also keep them

I said yes..I have to be careful all my life not to get addicted to something else again.

Thanks for your answer, I think it's great that you have it so under control. You can be really proud of yourself. If you know it and you can do it, I think it helps a lot. By reading here I try to understand a lot, it doesn't trigger me, it helps me. Thank you !

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Anonym

I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 11:59 am CET#14
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Magic Fairy wrote on 12/18/2018 at 11:54 am
Thank you for your reply, I think it's great that you have it so under control. You can be really proud of yourself. If you know it and can implement it is one believe already very helped. By reading here I try to understand a lot, it doesn't trigger me it helps me. Thank you !

And if you have questions, whatever kind..you can contact me here privately,

As I said the therapy will help you...but it won't be a walk in the park. It was often really hard and emotional. But it was worth it

You have already taken the first steps and if you have an appointment in January, that's good. Unfortunately, it is very difficult to get an appointment in this area in a timely manner.

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Zauberfee
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I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 12:14 pm CET#15
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Ronny1982 wrote on 12/18/2018 at 11:59 AM
And if you have questions of any kind..you can contact me privately here,

As I said therapy will help you...but it won't be a walk in the park. It has often been really hard and emotional. But it was worth it

You have already taken the first steps and if you have an appointment in January, that's good. Unfortunately, it is very difficult to get an appointment in a timely manner in this area

That is really nice of you
Yes, I feel that too, and I want to face everything. But you did it, even if you always have to be careful, but you know about the dangers and the why.
You have learned to live with everything.

That's the problem, I've been waiting three months for the appointment!

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Anonym

I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 06:00 pm CET#16
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Hello Magic Fairy,

i am also very sorry about what happened to your child. Such a very heavy blow can throw a person off track.we both have a lot in common. I, too, have almost played myself into the gutter. I had almost 50,000 euros in Debt before my private insolvency. I also won really well for a while, but as I said, that didn't last very long.

Now in private insolvency I have much less money to live on but I manage and above all I don't gamble anymore. I know that this private insolvency is my last chance. So if I continue to play myself into debt or violate the hard insolvency - rules then is gutter.

Please do not try to recover your losses. This will go wrong and you will have lost everything again.there is only one chance for you---let the gambling be. go as soon as possible into this therapy and let best your finances by a family member of your confidence manage.please absolutely the conditions of your insolvency. Otherwise the private insolvency will be canceled and you may even incur court costs and legal fees

I will also tell you how I managed to get out of it. Instead of playing for money, I now only play computer games, which I even already own all and no longer need to buy. I enjoy it and it only costs electricity and distracts.Also, I signed up for an adult education course because I want to photograph better.That also distracts. or listen to music, read, etc..

I am out of the mess and things are looking up. However, one should not think back. I could be the proud owner of a nice condo today. Instead, I made the online casino mafia in Malta rich. Yes that hurts sometimes very much. Of course, it's especially annoying that I can't afford to fly anymore and that I have to watch with frustration how my colleagues fly to the south, sometimes twice a year. But I go with me hard in court. I had myself to blame and can actually be glad that there is such a thing as private insolvency. Otherwise you would sit in the debt tower.

I wish you good luck!

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Huseyin
Experienced

I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 06:41 pm CET#17
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I have a question how is that with private bankruptcy you can then no longer play online?

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Anonym

I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 07:38 pm CET#18
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Magic Fairy wrote on 12/18/2018 at 12:14 PM
That is really kind of you
Yes I feel that too and I want to face it all. But you did it even if you always have to watch out, but you know about the dangers and the why.
You have learned to live with everything.

That's the problem, I've been waiting three months for the appointment!

That is already a good sign from you that you want to change something. I have also stopped actively gambling for about 1 month and it is really better with everything. I no longer have days that I am irritated because there were no "nice pictures". The worst is when suddenly nothing at all comes. I remember well days where I also gambled away wins unintentionally, I thought to myself "I'll spin a little more for fun" suddenly as if there were no more winning combinations and bonus features and also the sound of the slot is so quiet due to the non-existent win sounds. Did 847 spins on Rise of Olympus that day with an RTP of 13.2% I thought it would eventually come back a bit but nothing it was so dry I was so p**sed at myself - that I didn't stop myself before almost everything was gone.

Of course, there were days when it really "popped" and I was pumped full of happiness hormones wanted to share my happiness with everyone, have made PSC actions here and have in the environment also friends and family food, sometimes a haircut, an adventure trip, etc. donated. Of course, I spent the money mainly so that not everything ends up back in the casino. Because how often do you think after the money is gone "What could I have done with it, I idiot..." and then you want to have the money back and what do you do? Right you pay in and want to get it back, now it can work and you are super happy and pay it off, but it can also not work and then the real shit really starts. Because now is impulsively deposited high, gladly also several times in a row if it does not run at all and one plays now also more risky "must work only once and everything again in it" with the thought begins the roller coaster ride. Sometimes it works, but sometimes you feel so shitty bad afterwards that you would like to die and ask yourself at the end "How did it come to this?"

The casino and the addiction can happen so fast, you should have your private life halfway under control before you start gambling. If you start gambling with problems, you will only cause more problems in the long run, because in a weakened state you tend to take very risky actions. I also often said to myself only this and every win and I'll stop, all lies - I wanted to always win forever and ever. Preferably to be able to gamble endlessly and be overflowing with happy hormones all the time, because that's what I must have felt deep inside me. Maybe it was to compensate for something I don't have in my private life? I don't have much luck in my private life and have experienced many "bad" things and I'm working on that for now, I've always just ignored it or tried to forget it. Each person has his own story and everyone deals differently with the circumstances, so great that you have reported here. As someone wrote, this may not be the perfect place to start, but feel free to keep reporting - I, and probably others, will still be happy to support you.


Huseyin wrote on 18.12.2018 at 18:41 clock: I have a question like is that with private insolvency you can then no longer play online?

Why would that not work? But would advise against it, because you have only a basic security during the private insolvency and you should not necessarily gamble now.


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Anonym

I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 08:08 pm CET#19
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Huseyin wrote on 18.12.2018 at 18:41: I have a question how is that with privatinsolvenz can you then no longer play online?

So a private insolvency actually has nothing to do with the games. with me it has only come to this insolvency because of the goddamn gaming. During an insolvency, you also have much less money to live on, because depending on your income, large parts of your income are seized and for 6 years.

I can really not recommend anyone with a lower net income then still play. Should the insolvency administrator learn of it can you the entire insolvency be terminated and you may then pay all costs. That is the lawyer and court costs and possibly a penalty because you have not adhered to the strict conditions. This can be extremely expensive.

If you win and withhold this money, which is insolvency assets, from the administrator, you may even be liable to prosecution for insolvency fraud. The penalties range up to imprisonment.

So once again ---- people let the gambling and gambling be.

Insolvency is no fun! It is for me the last chance to get back on track and lead a normal life. Then without debts and above all without playing or gambling.


Let it be, this lousy gambling has almost brought me into the gutter. Imagine what you could have bought with 50,000 euros everything nice. There are still regions where you get a nice condo for so much money.

Is it really worth it to chase after some nice videos or the possible Jackpot that can't be hit anyway.

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Emx81
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I am so sorry

18th Dec. 2018, at 08:45 pm CET#20
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This is very sad and I don't wish it on anyone. I hope your family supports you...

If PayPal is not mandatory I would block it if by the privatins. not already done.
Greetings and all the best

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