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Gambling addiction in general: Gambling addiction I am at the end (Page 3)

Topic created on 13th Dec. 2018 | Page: 3 of 6 | Answers: 57 | Views: 13,831
Anonym

Gambling addiction I am at the end

13th Dec. 2018, at 10:23 pm CET#21
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Bianca6455 wrote on 12/13/2018 at 10:20 pm
I know that you are right and that it would be the right thing to do, but I have huge jitters.

He'll get it out eventually anyway. Talk to him and please just be completely honest

If you are afraid of falling off the wagon, you can use blocking software like the Betfilter. You can install it for a small fee and assign a password

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Gambling addiction I am at the end

13th Dec. 2018, at 10:26 pm CET#22
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If you plan to seek professional help, you will at least have a "plus point" if you are honest with him. Insight is the first step to improvement.
And as I said, it's better to be open and honest, even if it's unpleasant, than to run into an open knife when he finds out. So, close your eyes and get through it 😏 you'll manage 👍

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Gambling addiction I am at the end

13th Dec. 2018, at 10:51 pm CET#23
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Could she also consider the possibility of reclaiming the money through her bank? Then the trouble with her husband would be much smaller, if these now in Online Casinos disappeared 20 000 euros come back into the joint household pure.

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K****t

Gambling addiction I am at the end

13th Dec. 2018, at 11:06 pm CET#24
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First of all, it is the right step that you have acknowledged your Gambling addiction and even got yourself banned.
The next step would be to find out why you are addicted to gambling.
Is it only about the feeling of happiness when you win or about the actual sums you won at that time?
Are you trying to escape from everyday life and withdraw into a world where everything is supposedly quick and easy without any work?

If you have found out for yourself what the reasons are - and there may well be several reasons - then you are already quite a bit further along.
Then comes the step of entrusting yourself to experts.
You have to talk about it with someone who has professional knowledge.

I don't know your husband and can't advise you what to do, but it's obvious that in addition to the addiction and the wins, the hiding game is also an incredibly big burden for you.
Things like this depress you so much over time that you run the Risk of resigning and finally calling his bluff.

The most important thing is that you seek professional help. Because you don't really believe it at first, but experts can actually help.
They have the ability to provide clarity when you can't see the forest for the trees.
They can give you back full control over yourself and your life if you confide and admit it yourself - which is the case.

Remember: You don't need gambling to be happy. Find out what really makes you happy, what is more important to you than anything else.
What were and are your hobbies, what feeling did you have when you did something specific that you associate with positive feelings?
Where did you have success and when, what can you do to achieve a sense of success - even if only for yourself - that is not related to gambling?
Are there certain smells that transport you somewhere? Certain music, certain movies, certain hobbies, actions with your children or husband or friends, anything you loved before you started gambling?
You can ask yourself these questions.

Let them help you regain control. You have taken the first step, which is to recognize it and get blocked.
You can do the next one too, there is hardly any doubt about that.

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Begbie
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Gambling addiction I am at the end

13th Dec. 2018, at 11:54 pm CET#25
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she has written what was her drive. to get back the lost money
like so many people with similar player biographies. sounds too simple to be true huh?!
your depth-psychological cause analysis fits to the fewest players...

well, if i were you, i would confess it in any case.
i mean, what should your husband do? you gave him four children. he won't chase you to blocksberg because of it.
honesty will be rewarded most of the time.
and all people make mistakes. they are part of life.
cheer up. life goes on anyway. all the best

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K****t

Gambling addiction I am at the end

14th Dec. 2018, at 12:12 am CET#26
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Begbie wrote on 13.12.2018 at 23:54: she wrote what was her drive. to get the lost money back
like so many people with similar player biography. sounds too simple to be true huh?!
your depth-psychological cause analysis fits to the fewest players...

well, if i were you, i would confess it in any case.
i mean, what should your husband do? you gave him four children. he won't chase you to blocksberg because of it.
honesty will be rewarded most of the time.
and all people make mistakes. they are part of life.
cheer up. life goes on anyway. all the best

Gambling addiction is not limited to winning back lost money.
If it was just about that, you wouldn't have lost so much in the first place.
Such things should definitely be left to experts.
For this reason, it is advisable that gambling addicts ask themselves such and similar questions and clarify them with professionals. The only thing to do is to clarify it with yourself first, not to answer these questions here in the forum.

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M****k

Gambling addiction I am at the end

14th Dec. 2018, at 12:59 am CET#27
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Merry Christmas to you all ... 😐

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Sahip74
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Gambling addiction I am at the end

14th Dec. 2018, at 08:26 am CET#28
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Hello Bianca6455! First, you need to urgently clear the air with your husband.best still a person, good friend or mother, who stand by your side, so that it does not escalate. Your husband should block the bank accounts for you, so nothing more can happen. After that, get help, maybe your husband will support you. There are contact points in every city
I wish you good luck, you have already made the first step, self-knowledge

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Sahip74
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Gambling addiction I am at the end

14th Dec. 2018, at 08:33 am CET#29
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Here there was in a thread, a video of Plusminus do not know where that is? Look at the times, if it finds a member perhaps.

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Sahip74
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Gambling addiction I am at the end

14th Dec. 2018, at 09:03 am CET#30
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Found it: Reportage -Online Casino: Money back from illegal gambling... 1 page

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