Gambling addiction in general: Easy come, easy go. (Page 7)

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kvnhenne88 wrote on 08/14/2018 at 17:10: Hello dear community,

just under 6 months ago now my contribution in the forum. However, it feels like a bit longer. I would like to give you an update on my current situation.

First of all, I hope that at least you get along with your game behavior well and I wanted to thank you again for your feedback and your encouragement. In advance... Unfortunately they did not help me. Small flashback... I had over 40 000 euros in Debt, sold everything and lost all my possessions through highrolling. In the meantime, however, I won 13,000 euros and lost everything again within 2 days. Debts to banks, family, friends, partner and acquaintances.

In the beginning I was actually able to limit playing with real money. I only played with free spins several times and if I didn't win anything, I didn't win anything. I got along relatively well with that. Since I was in overdraft at that time and wanted to have it balanced, I borrowed more money through a bank that does not do a credit check, since German banks surprisingly did not want to pay my gambling addiction. This was then agreed to at some point. Thus, despite horrendous interest rates, I was actually well positioned to meet my obligations with my covered account and salary payments. Whether privately, with creditors or with banks. That was in the middle of April. At some point I won in a local casino, in which I let myself be lured, then actually times scarcely 2000 euro and was promptly again angefixt. In the following days and weeks, I kept winning large sums after making deposits, but lost them all the faster. I borrowed more money from friends and acquaintances. I already told my partner everything last year. Without her I would certainly not write these lines anymore. She supported me with all her means. Our relationship suffered from my Gambling addiction and was on the verge of collapse. Today, she believes, I no longer gamble. Again and again I managed to win money in the various casinos, which would be enough to meet my obligations on time. Each time, however, I gave in to my greed for more and lost euro after euro.

Rent debts, electricity costs, cell phone bill, installments with the bank, installments with various creditors, installments for the loan taken out by my girlfriend, installments with friends, family and acquaintances... all I could not and still cannot pay. Various requests for deferments written and received. Not complied with.

This month I wanted to make everything better. The salary, including wage deferrals, came. I wanted to make one more Deposit, since the salary would not be enough to make all the partial payments. No sooner said than done. I deposited 500 euros and hoped for a win of 1000 euros, which would be enough to live at least these 4 weeks until the next receipt. I played book of dead and started with 5 Euro per spin. After the 10th spin came the free spins and I won almost 6000 euros. I kept repeating to myself, let the money pay out and everything will be fine or better. But something in me was unreasonable again and hoped for a higher win. This unreasonableness gave me a win of 9230 Euro. As you can imagine, the stake was increased and I lost everything in the course of the session. Hardly any more wins worth mentioning. With renewed deposits to make up for the loss did not work for me, by the way. So now I sit here and write to you with 0.05 euros in my account. 2 days after receiving my salary and without any compensation payments. I am at the end.

In summary, I now have debts of over 65,000 euros, betrayed the trust of family and friends and already see the bailiff before me. I am seriously considering how to proceed in the future. Does a private insolvency make sense? Will this serve private creditors? Do I tell everyone involved about my addiction? Does my partner deserve a partner like me? Should I inform my employer? What do I tell my landlord? How do I make ends meet until my next salary? Questions upon questions, which I would never have had to ask myself without my addiction. My quality of life is incredibly low. I have great respect for all of you, the creators of gamblejoe, every member and all future players, however, I would like to emphasize something here again... Only play with money you don't need to live. Pay your bills and never p**s off family, friends and acquaintances. I didn't do all that and now stand on the precipice looking down, yet willing to turn around and walk in the right and safe direction. However, the way back from the abyss became more and more stony. However, I put all these stones there myself.

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Iseedeadpeople wrote on 14.08.2018 at 19:45: hab me times the effort made and also your first post again through read. there is exactly the same in there only with other numbers and 6 months earlier do you notice it yourself?
even if my predecessor aims at the same thing I think it makes sense if several independent of each other write you something like this.
--> include all persons close to you and (almost all) persons affected immediately and also confess the attempts behind the scenes.
--> immediately hand over control of your money to a person you trust.

if you don't do it now, your debts will be the least of your burdens in the future.
if you believe your words, you have one of the worst behavioral traits you can have --> you can't pay out when you win
so you will always lose even if you win --> where should the win come from if you get from 500€ to 6000€ to 9230€ like in your example and play down again until there is nothing left? with the next deposits certainly not.

do yourself a favor, never play again and follow the above points --> then it looks at least financially better in a few years.

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kvnhenne88 wrote on 08/14/2018 at 8:40 pm: Thank you for your responses and advice. I am infinitely afraid to "lay my cards on the table". I know I will hurt everyone by doing so when they know what they lent me money for. In fact, it is the same as 6 months ago only with different numbers. But it is also the same as 6 months ago only with different numbers. I don't want to deny that at all.

I did not manage to pay out at the right time and now I got the receipt for it.

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wettibernd wrote on 06.02.2018 at 12:21 pm: I myself have fought my way out of over 200000€ of Debt in 11 years, without insolvency but only with settlements. Now I still have exactly 600€ debt, 100€ in my wallet and about 450€ in the bank. As long as you are healthy and not fallen on your head you will get out of it, if it has to be with a private insolvency. So don't hang your head, life goes on and you just have to make the best of it. I think every gambler has been through something like this at least once.

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kvnhenne88 wrote on 08/14/2018 at 17:10: Hello dear community,

just under 6 months ago now my contribution in the forum. However, it feels like a bit longer. I would like to give you an update on my current situation.

First of all, I hope that at least you get along with your game behavior well and I wanted to thank you again for your feedback and your encouragement. In advance... Unfortunately they did not help me. Small flashback... I had over 40 000 euros in Debt, sold everything and lost all my possessions through highrolling. In the meantime, however, I won 13,000 euros and lost everything again within 2 days. Debts to banks, family, friends, partner and acquaintances.

In the beginning I was actually able to limit playing with real money. I only played with free spins several times and if I didn't win anything, I didn't win anything. I got along relatively well with that. Since I was in overdraft at that time and wanted to have it balanced, I borrowed more money through a bank that does not do a credit check, since German banks surprisingly did not want to pay my gambling addiction. This was then agreed to at some point. Thus, despite horrendous interest rates, I was actually well positioned to meet my obligations with my covered account and salary payments. Whether privately, with creditors or with banks. That was in the middle of April. At some point I won in a local casino, in which I let myself be lured, then actually times scarcely 2000 euro and was promptly again angefixt. In the following days and weeks, I kept winning large sums after making deposits, but lost them all the faster. I borrowed more money from friends and acquaintances. I already told my partner everything last year. Without her I would certainly not write these lines anymore. She supported me with all her means. Our relationship suffered from my Gambling addiction and was on the verge of collapse. Today, she believes, I no longer gamble. Again and again I managed to win money in the various casinos, which would be enough to meet my obligations on time. Each time, however, I gave in to my greed for more and lost euro after euro.

Rent debts, electricity costs, cell phone bill, installments with the bank, installments with various creditors, installments for the loan taken out by my girlfriend, installments with friends, family and acquaintances... all I could not and still cannot pay. Various requests for deferments written and received. Not complied with.

This month I wanted to make everything better. The salary, including wage deferrals, came. I wanted to make one more Deposit, since the salary would not be enough to make all the partial payments. No sooner said than done. I deposited 500 euros and hoped for a win of 1000 euros, which would be enough to live at least these 4 weeks until the next receipt. I played book of dead and started with 5 Euro per spin. After the 10th spin came the free spins and I won almost 6000 euros. I kept repeating to myself, let the money pay out and everything will be fine or better. But something in me was unreasonable again and hoped for a higher win. This unreasonableness gave me a win of 9230 Euro. As you can imagine, the stake was increased and I lost everything in the course of the session. Hardly any more wins worth mentioning. With renewed deposits to make up for the loss did not work for me, by the way. So now I sit here and write to you with 0.05 euros in my account. 2 days after receiving my salary and without any compensation payments. I am at the end.

In summary, I now have debts of over 65,000 euros, betrayed the trust of family and friends and already see the bailiff before me. I am seriously considering how to proceed in the future. Does a private insolvency make sense? Will this serve private creditors? Do I tell everyone involved about my addiction? Does my partner deserve a partner like me? Should I inform my employer? What do I tell my landlord? How do I make ends meet until my next salary? Questions upon questions, which I would never have had to ask myself without my addiction. My quality of life is incredibly low. I have great respect for all of you, the creators of gamblejoe, every member and all future players, however, I would like to emphasize something here again... Only play with money you don't need to live. Pay your bills and never p**s off family, friends and acquaintances. I didn't do all that and now I'm standing on the precipice looking down, but I'm still willing to turn around and walk in the right and safe direction. However, the way back from the abyss became more and more stony. However, I put all these stones there myself.

Love greetings

kvnhenne

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