The thing is, gambling should only be done by those who can gamble in a controlled and moderate manner. This group exists, even if the percentage is small. Ergo: You will only be able to live a happy life if you stop completely. As sorry as I am. And no one will be able to seriously question this statement, even in a gambler forum.
That's exactly how it is. I gambled 'controlled' for many years and at some point the switch was flipped
That's when 'the first win is the biggest loss' comes into play again. Dortmund hohensyburg. 3DM in the machine and directly in the first spin 1000 out. The absolute luck. Was of course still far away from what is possible today, but has me so so triggered that I have put a gambler career over 20 years. Control loss over and over again. The online gambling has put the crown on the whole thing. You no longer have to go out the door, you have no cash in hand and gambles as long as the credit card there hwe. 2 inheritances brought through, insg loose 1 million €, rather more verballert
Zock now for about 3 years no more, a whole new feeling of happiness!
You are too deep inside to gamble controlled. Goes only completely or not at all, believe me...
And the not at all is easier every day, but the beginning is damn hard 🙄
If you consciously keep your expenses and wins and the account balance in front of you, the gambling itself, be it said how pronounced the addiction is, is controllable.
It becomes a player with time aware that a X loss only leads to further losses, as long as you Deposit and must / want to run after the lost money.
Locking up and being aware of losing money is difficult .... but helps extremely...as you are not heading for total loss.
Tried again and again to leave it. Then again a small "offer" accepted etcpp.
Personally, I can say, all or nothing
You should ask yourself why you play? What it does with you when you play?
I started playing to not think about problems in life, escape from everyday life.
Well, today I would have a big house and a few cars
Reflect yourself, ask yourself the right questions, analyze and then decide if continuing to play is the right thing for you or maybe you will find another hobby with the money, which gives you more pleasure.
pawel_008 wrote on 01.02.2021 at 09:22: If you consciously keep your expenses and wins and the account balance in front of your eyes, the gambling itself, be said there how pronounced the addiction is, is controllable.
An addiction is not an addiction if it were controllable!
And what concerns the pronounced being of an addiction,
mainly and explicitly Gambling addiction is a progressive addiction or disease, -says only little about your current actual state.
And "how pronounced" you will only find out when you are done
thank you very much for your answers and sorry for answering only now.
I have talked to a friend about it, he knows everything now and is the last one to judge me. I talked to him a lot and also told him that I would like to play controlled. We were also on the subject of "all or nothing", but he also quickly realized that I want to try it that way. And that's what I really want.
We have now thought about the following together:
I play on ONE casino where I can gambeln + sports betting. At my disposal is always on the first of the month 200€ with a loss limit of 50€ per week. In the worst case I lose 50€ per week and have 0€ at the end of the month. 200€ is also so much that I can easily afford it and I already write off the money when I deposit. In the best case I win something and then play next month with it further or if I come for example on 300€, I pay out 100€ and have already half of the next month inside.
In addition, we have agreed that if I want to Deposit more again or I want to register somewhere else, I can write to him or call him and we talk
If it doesn't work out SO, I will (have to) stop completely. But I assume that I can manage it this way and that I will find the fun in the whole thing again. As I said, I hope that my problem is solved and it only remains for me that I will report to you if you want. I will start this project in March. Of course, I also write everything down and always keep in mind that it remains at the 200 € per month.
thank you very much for your answers and sorry for answering only now.
I have talked to a friend about this, he knows everything now and is the last one to judge me. I talked to him a lot and also told him that I would like to play controlled. We were also on the subject of "all or nothing", but he also quickly realized that I want to try it that way. And that's what I really want.
We have now thought about the following together:
I play on ONE casino where I can gambeln + sports betting. At my disposal is always on the first of the month 200€ with a loss limit of 50€ per week. In the worst case I lose 50€ per week and have 0€ at the end of the month. 200€ is also so much that I can easily afford it and I already write off the money when I deposit. In the best case I win something and then play next month with it further or if I come for example on 300€, I pay out 100€ and have already half of the next month inside.
In addition, we have agreed that if I want to Deposit more again or I want to register somewhere else, I can write to him or call him and we talk
If it doesn't work out SO, I will (have to) stop completely. But I assume that I can manage it this way and that I will find the fun in the whole thing again. As I said, I hope that my problem is solved and it only remains for me that I will report to you if you want. I will start this project in March. Of course, I also write everything down and always keep in mind that it remains at the 200 € per month.
Kind regards
And
Report to us also here, whether you manage to pull through this stable and do not let it trigger you, if you have a larger win. The write down is definitely helpful, so you keep your expenses here always exactly in the eye.
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It is worth a try. Because you have to really want to quit and be 100 percent behind it, everything else is just a postponement until the relapse
A total ban leads yes, if you still do not really want it, but rather to the fact that there is something in you, inside feels like punished until the defiance comes
all of life is a quest do not fool yourselves
every hobby is a quest
boredom drinking
play
cards
work
car tuning
pc tuning ect.pp
the main thing is that the brain has something to do
everything to the smallest detail
and when there is no more challenge (everything has been solved) one searches(addiction!!!!)for a new challenge
the whole life is a game
do not condemn the addict but those who take advantage of it, the seeker(addiction) is made out to be a fool and left alone
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Above all, life is much too short to worry about gambling all the time
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It is now up to you to become active
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That's when 'the first win is the biggest loss' comes into play again. Dortmund hohensyburg. 3DM in the machine and directly in the first spin 1000 out. The absolute luck. Was of course still far away from what is possible today, but has me so so triggered that I have put a gambler career over 20 years. Control loss over and over again. The online gambling has put the crown on the whole thing. You no longer have to go out the door, you have no cash in hand and gambles as long as the credit card there hwe. 2 inheritances brought through, insg loose 1 million €, rather more verballert
Zock now for about 3 years no more, a whole new feeling of happiness!
You are too deep inside to gamble controlled. Goes only completely or not at all, believe me...
And the not at all is easier every day, but the beginning is damn hard 🙄
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It becomes a player with time aware that a X loss only leads to further losses, as long as you Deposit and must / want to run after the lost money.
Locking up and being aware of losing money is difficult .... but helps extremely...as you are not heading for total loss.
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i have been playing for about 17 years.
Tried again and again to leave it. Then again a small "offer" accepted etcpp.
Personally, I can say, all or nothing
You should ask yourself why you play? What it does with you when you play?
I started playing to not think about problems in life, escape from everyday life.
Well, today I would have a big house and a few cars
Reflect yourself, ask yourself the right questions, analyze and then decide if continuing to play is the right thing for you or maybe you will find another hobby with the money, which gives you more pleasure.
Greetings
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An addiction is not an addiction if it were controllable!
And what concerns the pronounced being of an addiction,
mainly and explicitly Gambling addiction is a progressive addiction or disease, -says only little about your current actual state.
And "how pronounced" you will only find out when you are done
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thank you very much for your answers and sorry for answering only now.
I have talked to a friend about it, he knows everything now and is the last one to judge me. I talked to him a lot and also told him that I would like to play controlled. We were also on the subject of "all or nothing", but he also quickly realized that I want to try it that way. And that's what I really want.
We have now thought about the following together:
I play on ONE casino where I can gambeln + sports betting. At my disposal is always on the first of the month 200€ with a loss limit of 50€ per week. In the worst case I lose 50€ per week and have 0€ at the end of the month. 200€ is also so much that I can easily afford it and I already write off the money when I deposit. In the best case I win something and then play next month with it further or if I come for example on 300€, I pay out 100€ and have already half of the next month inside.
In addition, we have agreed that if I want to Deposit more again or I want to register somewhere else, I can write to him or call him and we talk
If it doesn't work out SO, I will (have to) stop completely. But I assume that I can manage it this way and that I will find the fun in the whole thing again. As I said, I hope that my problem is solved and it only remains for me that I will report to you if you want. I will start this project in March. Of course, I also write everything down and always keep in mind that it remains at the 200 € per month.
Kind regards
And
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Report to us also here, whether you manage to pull through this stable and do not let it trigger you, if you have a larger win. The write down is definitely helpful, so you keep your expenses here always exactly in the eye.
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A total ban leads yes, if you still do not really want it, but rather to the fact that there is something in you, inside feels like punished until the defiance comes
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every hobby is a quest
boredom drinking
play
cards
work
car tuning
pc tuning ect.pp
the main thing is that the brain has something to do
everything to the smallest detail
and when there is no more challenge (everything has been solved) one searches(addiction!!!!)for a new challenge
the whole life is a game
do not condemn the addict but those who take advantage of it, the seeker(addiction) is made out to be a fool and left alone
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But now it is enough...
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