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Gambling addiction in general: A crying thread - How do you cheer up after a loss? (Page 3)

Topic created on 05th Aug. 2018 | Page: 3 of 6 | Answers: 50 | Views: 14,060
M****3
stkrie wrote on 05/08/2018 at 20:49: When I find a deciphering machine that translates this, I'll answer you!
Until then, have a great evening!

I will gladly waive your answer no topic

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Anonym
Samira wrote on 05/08/2018 at 15:34: Why this is so interesting? Because if you lied about your age, everything else can probably be a lie too.

I've made the effort to take people like you seriously here on the forum many times, until it turned out it was just a troll, then you think to yourself, what's the point?

If I'm honest, you still haven't convinced me... if only because you've made another mistake.

You mean you would have caught up your specialized high school diploma in two years, may be, but why do you write then afterwards that you have the university entrance qualification. You already know that the Hochschulreife is not the same as the Fachhochschulreife, right? With the former you can study at a university and with the latter at a university of applied sciences. If you want to study at a university with your Fachabi, you can only do so with a subject-related qualification and only if you have several years of work experience or have raised children. If someone with these degrees is or was employed, I think these mistakes can not arise so easily. Especially since you are good at expressing yourself.

In addition, I think that no one who writes here with good intentions, would come to the idea to suspect himself as a troll, unless he really is one.

I will not wish you ill, but unfortunately I will not give any advice until I am convinced of the opposite of my assumption.

I wish you all the best anyway.

Samira, you and I are active here in the forum for a while and have probably not yet discussed in a thread together, because I usually hold back and do not write so much. But the question of the thread creator referred to the fact that he as a student with little money has gambled away more and he is very angry about it. And he asks how others are doing if they also have the desire to recover losses, etc.

I don't think it's your place to judge his private life. And whether he is in the 3rd or 4th semester or at what age he graduated from secondary school etc. is irrelevant here.
This is a casino forum where questions about casinos, deposits, withdrawals and possible Gambling addiction should be clarified.
You, and of course everyone else, have no right to judge someone's private life or to make assumptions about previous bad decisions regarding work, studies, etc.
Please understand my opinion, you can't judge a person or his decisions or wrong decisions by a forum commentary-that's not for all of us!

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s****e
If I read Samira's text correctly, her point is whether there is someone at work here who is trying to create a thread in a troll-like manner or whether it is a serious question
trying to create a thread or if it is a serious question.

First we had the nice gentleman who lost 1.5 million, and then for some
inexplicable reasons, and now we have almost the opposite case, although
reverse case, although I didn't really understand his question either.

If there are any mistakes in the CV, we can assume that the rest is not correct either
correct. Therefore, meaningful answers would then be unnecessary.
However, since she has emphasized that it is also possible that she is mistaken, I now do not understand this
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And since there were some trolls on the road lately, she probably had the assumption there.

As each person deals with an illness differently, each person also deals with losses differently
different, so no right answer can be given to him.
He must find his own way.

If, however, the loss of money upsets him so much, he would have to stop playing
because it makes no sense. Then to ask how to deal with it is difficult to answer!
to answer!


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Julian
Elite
stkrie wrote on 05/08/2018 at 20:42: Where am I looking for a fight? Mombasa and I had a quick joke and that was it.
What's your problem now?

You should know slowly that such "jokes" are always responsible for such debates and are triggered by it,
It is in the end only pure provocation against another user and is therefore not to be approved here in the forum.

Just as unnecessary are such statements as "When I have found a deciphering machine that translates this, I'll answer you!".
If someone has something against your spelling, you are of course entitled to comment on it,
but definitely not in such a way. And in my eyes this should not take place in a public thread to offend the person in front of everyone.

You always have the possibility to exchange via Communicator or to talk, but such off-topic topics, or debates definitely do not belong here.
Should you still not want to show insight and continue with the public provocations. I will initiate other steps. This applies to every user who was involved here.
In order not to divert the topic further from the topic I will also no longer express myself here and will also ask you to restrain yourself here.

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stmamick
The only true answer is to remember that things can get much worse if you don't control yourself.
It can always be much much worse. The first loss may hang over you for 1 month, then it is forgotten.
See it as a challenge to forget the losses. If you can do that, you are better than the 95% who didn't make it and lost a lot of happiness in life afterwards.
Trying to win back money is always the beginning of the end.
Then it is high time to let go.

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Stromberg
Legend
Julian wrote on 05/08/2018 at 21:32
You should slowly know that such "jokes" are always responsible for such debates and are triggered by it,
It is in the end only pure provocation towards another user and is thus not to be approved here in the forum.

Just as unnecessary are such statements as "When I have found a deciphering machine that translates this, I'll answer you!".
If someone has something against your spelling, you are of course entitled to comment on it,
but definitely not in such a way. And in my eyes this should not take place in a public thread to offend the person in front of everyone.

You always have the possibility to exchange via Communicator or to talk, but such off-topic topics, or debates definitely do not belong here.
Should you still not want to show insight and continue with the public provocations. I will initiate other steps. This applies to every user who was involved here.
In order not to divert the topic further from the topic I will also no longer express myself here and will also ask you to restrain yourself here.

I think in the case of the posts of Metz it is not about the spelling itself, or to offend someone because of lack of spelling skills.
She wrote herself that she uses a voice recording program and that it is too much work for her to correct the texts afterwards.
I can understand if that annoys some people.

But there are worse, mostly you understand what is meant...😉

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Anonym
Gamer...

To express it in your words...I don't think it's your place to judge me in this way, insinuating things and at the same time admitting that you have neither understood nor even read my written words.

I am neither interested in his private life nor yours. The numbers, however, became relevant to me, because certain numbers caught my eye, which indicated that the story is not necessarily true.

In my opinion, I have explained myself understandably, which is also shown by Stkrie's comment. In addition, I have even apologized for my expression at the TE, if I should be wrong.

I do not know how you are, but it bothers me when here as it has happened in the past of the öftern trolls live out and not only talk to themselves, but also rush and users like me, for example, must feel fooled when sincere effort is trampled underfoot.

Of course, everyone may write about his worries as he wants, whether it is the problem that you have gambled away house, yard and company or helpful tips expected. With the latter, I hope from my counterpart to remain with the truth, that is the condition around also honest and well meant answers to receive.

Julian...

You are annoyed that always the same problem arises, I am also annoyed that you always behave the same.

Please let me try to explain...

Generally I think it's good that you try to keep order here, but it's sad to read that you find it easy to clean up when it's always the same person(s). I admit that the Stkrie zbs. is not always easy, but your intervention would be and is also required for other users.

Let's stay with Metz...

She has also used one or the other choice of words that left me amazed.

"Dude, get over it, the thread has to be deleted" and she writes that, although she could have ignored the thread, as she herself demands from other users now because of her difficult to understand contributions. Nobody forced her to comment. I have now not word-for-word everything rewritten, came more, but something like that was already.

I for one find that extremely provocative to someone who opens a thread to ban the mouth.

In addition, I found their expression "dirty foreigners Spielo" not much more pleasant, I, which has its roots in Portugal, felt directly attacked.
She has apologized for it, however, the words were not meant wiklich different.

Of course, maybe you don't have to and can't jump up directly, but if you do it here, you should have done the cleanup in bspw. the mentioned matters. I find it bad enough that the Matthias has already expressed that no one from GJ can be impartial, but must this be shown so obviously? And the above examples, are only two of unfortunately many.

LG

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Julian
Elite
Please come back to the topic, if there is a need to talk off-topic use the communicator.
Thank you very much.

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Anonym
stkrie wrote on 05/08/2018 at 21:25: If I read Samira's text correctly, her point is whether there is someone at work here who is troll-like
trying to create a thread, or if it is a serious question.

First we had the nice gentleman who lost 1.5 million, and then for some
inexplicable reasons, and now we have almost the opposite case, although
reverse case, although I didn't really understand his question either.

If there are any mistakes in the CV, we can assume that the rest is not correct either
correct. Therefore, meaningful answers would then be unnecessary.
However, since she has emphasized that it is also possible that she is mistaken, I now do not understand this
Contribution
And since there were some trolls on the road lately, she probably had the assumption there.

As each person deals with an illness differently, each person also deals with losses differently
different, so no right answer can be given to him.
He must find his own way.

If, however, the loss of money upsets him so much, he would have to stop playing
because it makes no sense. Then to ask how to deal with it is difficult to answer!
to answer!



So my questions are at the end:

"What do you do when you can't easily forget a loss? Or when you are angry that you didn't pay out sooner? Or when you lose control? Do you have any tips for me? Would really appreciate any answers!"

I meant to ask what others do when, for example, they lose control and bet more than they had originally planned, or they generally place high stakes without having the money. But that so many have not understood this question surprised me but something and that incidentally a kind of provocation war ensteht also. Had actually a very positive opinion about the forum so far (read since approx. 1-2 week with). Why should you even try to argue with others, if you have problems you should clarify that privately in Messenger, etc. but not publicly.

I'm glad that the moderation is active and would like to move now not too far off-topic. I was here to get tips and experiences, I have already read through some threads - but most are only about the loss and not what does against it. Often I read only that someone who once had not under control again has not under control. I mean the thought to "win it back" that had probably everyone at least once in life, even if some have rejected him immediately - or am I wrong here?

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Anonym
If I Deposit a 10 and then lose tuh it goes me not so mies but if I'm e.g. at 200 euros with a 10 deposit and start to play on high stakes and lose everything's me already shit what I do against it I go to friends and distract me and then I forget the whole thing but mostly I pay my money at 150 from but now and then I have just times sone desire to play high stakes then it overcomes me just. I pay in the month maybe 10 times what so 100 euros but only in 10 from time to time also 15 or 20 but never more and I recommend you also so ises not quite so tragic if you lose

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