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A crying thread - How do you cheer up after a loss?
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Sorry to vent a bit here, my family is not a good person to talk to and so far the problems have only worsened. I can't tell the few friends I want to tell right now. They are on vacation and I don't want to bother them with my problems. Anyway, I am 23 and study - would like to break off after 4 semesters now nevertheless. I've thought about it for a long time and I'm completely "burned out", I've had a secondary school diploma and made up for the other degrees. Have also worked a year in retail, briefly in a Zeitarbeitesfirma and then one has pushed me something to study and now I have sleep problems, severe depression and already had the one or other thought.
Wanted to get some money through the casino so that I can pay back my Bafög which I have to pay back half then in one fell swoop. Wanted 500 € still "earn", but I knew already at the beginning that it is naive. Although you know it's stupid, you do it and then you lose and want to get your loss back and so on. Tried several casinos, played without bonus - because I will never convert it, and it did not go well. My loss today was 120 € at sunmaker and the total loss in all casinos together is about 260 €. At Sunmaker I was just unlucky, didn't expect the slots to return so little, with 100 auto-spins there were just 15 times anything at all returned and that was then really "awesome" and with 1 € stake the highest that came back was ~5 €. I deposited 10 € then 20 then 30...
After I have "gambled away" 100 € through slots, I thought that I should try it vllt. with Blackjack and roulette. I had made better experience in Tipico (but also there later lost everything in slots). All low tables were occupied and then I saw that Sunmaker also bet behind is available. Say I can bet on a player and I did, I bet moderately at first on a player and got me up to 35 €. Then lost again and slipped to 25 €, so changed the table (subjective feeling just), there I probably then bet on the stupidest people:
Player 1: Has ace and 9 (So 20), what does he do? Exactly, he draws another card and another and he really manages to overbuy with an ace
Player 2: Has a 7 and a 4, an 11, what does this glorious specimen of evolution do? Exactly - he does NOT draw another card (I wanted to break something here)
Player 3: Splits his two 7's and draws 8 (so 15) and Jack (so 17). On 17 he draws another and overbought - writes in the chat ("Mouse broken you **** dealer")
Player 4: Just unlucky and has a 4 and a 5, draws a two and a 5 and a 7 and just overbought himself
Player 5: Black Jack
So then we have 8 € on people who overbought (player 2 and player 3 had the same name, probably the same player) and 2 € on the person who has a Black Jack. So I got 5 € from the blackjack (3:2) and so I lost 3 €. Then I go out there again and what do I do, super great guy, I try it again at the slots and fail miserably. The last 5 € I have lost in Black Jack by own playing also, have had the number 12 and me overbought - although it would hardly have played a role in the round had the Dealer anyway a Black Jack and money for insure I had not.
In any case, I have Sunmaker blocked for the time being to prevent further impulse deposits, Tipico has been a limit for some time and that still holds a while, at another casino I could still Deposit but since I play anyway not so happy. For some, these 260 € may be nothing, but for me that's pretty much the warm rent I pay (have been looking for a very long time for such a cheap apartment) and I no longer get the maximum rate of Bafög - because my big brother has started a 450 € job and since then I live really at the limit of what is possible. Have at times simply every other day nothing eaten to save money, then started to wait until evening so that the prices in discount stores or generally on the market are reduced to pick up something. Then noticed the bread would still go and the stomach fills it also so why not. Meanwhile I help some with financial topics (since I have studied in this area and was economically oriented in my school, this is easy for me) with topics I can not answer I say that directly and so far no one has complained. I don't ask for money for it, but I am allowed to pick something from the garden of my neighbors. Anyway, the people then share with one simply and that helps me then already.
But I can't forget the money that I just gambled away and I really blew it and I've been blaming myself for hours that I could have just done something nice with my siblings. I could have invested it so much more sensibly and I really get crying fits and a guilty conscience, I can't look anyone in the face with it anymore. It really gets me down to the point of being angry and sad - that even though I knew it - I paid in so much. At the beginning I thought I could hold on, but the only thing I could stop - was 800 € that I still wanted to transfer from the savings account. Then I rang myself and said "And you say that you have a strong will? Then prove it!". It helped me that my cell phone (mobile Tan) was a little further away, and as I said a few seconds later I let myself be locked out.
And yes I am aware that for some this seems like a troll, but as someone who actually always has halfway under control - this was a new experience. Now I haven't burned through €3000 or so like some, but I was definitely willing to go for a four figure loss for a short time. Earlier I had also played a little lotto, but with far less stake and also very "moderate" (20 € a month) and mostly I came out with 0 € loss. Then once bet 30 € and lost then immediately stopped. Since 2 years no more lotto ticket touched. Hope I manage that with the casino also or it really makes some fun, if I have solved my financial problems I will consider with a 10 € limit (monthly) to play for fun. But first a few months distance.
What do you do when you can not easily forget a loss? Or if you are annoyed not to have paid out sooner? Or when you lose control? Do you have any tips for me? I would be very happy about every answer!
LG
Ankor (name derived from Anchor - anchor, if anyone is interested^^)
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So when it annoys me that I lost I get the phone away and usually do something else because I have a child I have forgotten this within not even two minutes again the control directly I have never lost I always know where my limits are and these I will also keep in the interest of my child so my Tip for you would be just to do anything that completely distracts you not to surf the Internet or sit in front of the computer but something in the completely different direction go out with friends meet no idea what else you like so
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I have been playing for 7 years and have not yet experienced this.If I had big losses I am of course also angry.The money is gone and that's it.
Now imagine you win 50000 euros the fewest stop immediately.you play and afterwards the money is gone.that would be for me the nightmare.that you are of course angry is clear.suggestion try a while not to play.if you want to play umbedingt pay 20 to 50 euros and play on 10 cents.in no case take bonus.please do not make the same mistake as me and go up with the stakes when you win.This can go very quickly in the eye and you have nothing more.The easiest way to pull people's money out of their pockets are Games of chance "Slot machines, Online Casinos, lottery, etc.The probability of winning a 6 digit Jackpot is as high as a 6 with additional number in the lottery.I assume that 90% of all gamblers are in the red.At 20 to 30% even 5 or 6 digits I guess.If it's only about winning read the fingers of it.
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i can well imagine that you feel like crying, you should also very productive, but not about what you pretend here, but about the fact that you are probably a very sad figure. (Please excuse me if I'm wrong, I'm a burnt child)
With so many lies, it's really hard for me to decide where to start exposing you.
Will not treat everything now... there is unfortunately too much.
So you are 23 years old, had a secondary school diploma, have caught up on all the degrees and are now studying in the 4th semester at the university... correct?!
So...
4 semesters = 2 years,
from secondary school diploma to university entrance qualification = at least 4 years,
Field of activity retail = 1 year,
that's a total of 7 years, not including the time as a temporary worker.
Are you a superhero?
Or rather Einstein's reincarnation?!
Probably not, otherwise you would have calculated that the RTP is forn ass and your money in casinos to Deposit, which you already have to turn over not only 1x, certainly even 5x can never be a good investment.
You are already aware that we have a 9-10 year compulsory education here in Germany?
So, if all this may be true, you must really have given full throttle and have had a lot of luck that everything went without delays by bsp. registration deadlines.
The whole story is quite strange.
I am sure that you are a troll as you wrote yourself, I really wonder what these people get out of it? Boredom?
If I am wrong, then please forgive my language.
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Hello,
i started school at the age of 7. Then 9 years of secondary school and finished at 16. With 18 years the middle maturity, then 1 year (or it was only 8 months) worked at the discounter and then two years my (Fach)-Abitur made. At 21 I started my studies and now I am 23 years old. Temporary work was 1 month and before the start of studies, so I have, among other things, deposit, tuition fees (149 € for a semester), bus ticket (105 € for a semester, but so I can go long distances) and the time until I received Bafög bridged.
When I went to secondary school, we could register with the half-year report of the conclusion already for the middle maturity we had 3 schools to choose from at that time (commercial, technical and home economics). From the middle maturity on the Hochschulreife lieffs as already mentioned not so fluidly, but at the second attempt evenly. I also do not know why I should lie about my age or background, what advantages do I have from it?
But I expressed myself very badly with the 4 semesters, I plan to drop out after the 4th semester - I'm entering the 4th semester now and I'm going to let it run out bridgingly. But really, my background was just to give context for casino play and I didn't want to talk much about studying, etc. either. If I have offended you in any way I would like to apologize and I mean it, if you have anything else to say you can leave it out here or privately - it may be that I have expressed myself badly in a rage or I have written it down. I prefer that someone reveals my mistakes to me and thus gives me the opportunity to improve or explain.
Have informed me about casinos a lot, but it only gradually properly understood and realized. Especially slots with high volatility seem to pull you into the abyss if the budget is small - but I also do not want to play with 1000 €. I think I will take the suggestion of Manfrede4 and not play for now, that I had already planned and later maybe play with small stakes on 10 cents - although my plan is to play the slots no longer extensively. Have already read some in the forum had 13,000 € loss and were on the brink of the abyss and then in the next year this loss have reingholen - I'm pretty sure I could never carry such a high loss. That would break everything for me, I can scrape together at most 2000 to 4000 € alone (If I go to the limit of the card, clear out savings account, empty my two piggy banks and ask my bank if I can uncover my shares for a fee).
I think it's good that you can stick to your own limits. Hope you keep it and I will remove myself for the next few hours from the computer now and try to get other thoughts. But in the meantime I have halfway processed it, it still presses something - but is no longer so bad.
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Hands off from gambling and good is.
You already have a certain age and should know how to deal with
Problems or stupidities.
There is no panacea.
One person beats up his place, the other shrugs his shoulders.
What would I have done in the past?
I would have gotten angry, and then it would have been fine after a few days!
What else can you do?
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But where is actually the red bone?
Otherwise, to the thread creator: After too high a loss simply block in all online casinos. Best so for 6 months, but better for 1 year.
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Think he was on vacation from vacation!
Yes, even if it does not suit everyone, but am back
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Oh you're not allowed to say that?
Liest Horch and Guck again with?
I hope he had vacation in North Korea and stays the same. Shall be sooooo a great communist country...
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I have often taken the trouble to take people like you seriously here in the forum, until it turned out that it was just a troll, then you think to yourself, what's the point?
If I'm honest, you still haven't convinced me... if only because you've made another mistake.
You mean you would have caught up your specialized high school diploma in two years, may be, but why do you write then afterwards that you have the university entrance qualification. You already know that the Hochschulreife is not the same as the Fachhochschulreife, right? With the former you can study at a university and with the latter at a university of applied sciences. If you want to study at a university with your Fachabi, you can only do so with a subject-related qualification and only if you have several years of work experience or have raised children. If someone with these degrees is or was employed, I think these mistakes can not arise so easily. Especially since you are good at expressing yourself.
In addition, I think that no one who writes with good intentions here what would come to the idea to suspect himself as a troll, unless he really is one.
I will not wish you ill, but unfortunately I will not give any advice until I am convinced of the opposite of my assumption.
All the best to you anyway.
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